The Buckinchere Transcendence

Category: Escape the matrix

  • Your time is limited, treat it like a business negotiation

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Mar 24, 2024

    If that was not the case, then it would probably mean that you possessed the power of immortality. But if you know that you will likely grow elderly, and die someday, then it means that you have been on the clock since the moment of birth, and you don’t have time to waste on damn rubbish.

    Time is an artificial measurement of chronology. And chronology is all of eternity without the measurement of time. Even though time is artificial, it still exists nonetheless, and we have to respect time for what it is. Be that as it may, time has its appropriate time, place and usefulness. Time may often seem to work against you. But in all actuality, time is really your friend, and it can work in your favor, if you use it wisely.

    Time is an asset, just like your health, money, and education. It does not matter if the engagement in question is business or pleasure. You decide how much of your time you want to leverage in exchange for what you want. For example, time plus health equals youth. You may then use your youthfulness to achieve an education that will hopefully teach you how to wisely earn money, without selling your precious, fleeting time for a paycheck. You can then choose to invest some of the money into improving your health. So that you can buy some extra time to achieve some more of your goals before they inevitably call your number.

    Unfortunately, you are more often than not, leveraging your time in exchange for money. That is not the smartest use of your time, but I understand that it may be the quickest way to make some money while you are still young. Do what you must, but understand that this is supposed to be a temporary fix, until you figure out what exactly it is that you want to do with your life. But even while working a job, you still need to budget your time effectively. Here are some suggestions for you to consider when leveraging your time for a paycheck.

    There are 24 hours within each daily cycle. If you divide 24 by 3, you get 8. So there are 3 eights in a day. 8 hours to sleep, 8 hours to work, and 8 hours for recreation. For example, you may sleep between 12:00 am to 8:00 am. Work from 8:00 am to 4:00 pm, and recreate from 4:00 pm to midnight. This is an oversimplified version, but you get the picture. The main problems that will arise from practicing that concept are in so far as deciding on the time to eat, and the time to commute to work.

    Where will you find the time for any of those things if you spring right into work as soon as you wake up? Unless you work from home, of course. But even so, where do you find the time to eat? Afterall, breakfast is the most important meal of the day. And to neglect your human need for food is to compromise your health for a paycheck.

    You probably think it’s fine because it’s temporary. That is until it becomes a habit as you find yourself skipping breakfast more often. It may not affect you when you are young, but it is sure to catch up with you someday. Perhaps sooner than you think. Is the trade off really worth it?

    Mornings are too early for employers to demand that their staff members run away, and leave their breakfast behind for a thankless job that will likely hire your replacement before they are able to set your funeral date. Might I recommend that you sleep from 12:00 am to 8:00 am, recreate from 8:00 am to 4:00 pm, then work from 4:00 pm to midnight? Once again, this is an oversimplification of how to split your time, that probably won’t do you any justice. Ideally, you would sleep from midnight to 8:00 am, work from midday to 8:00 pm, then have two, 4 hour recreation periods on both ends of work.

    Never work more than 10 miles away from home. So that not only can you potentially save on fuel. But also, so that your commute to and from work would not cut into too much of your recreation time. You should only commute no more than 20 minutes each way. This will leave you with more recreation time to do more of the things you love. Otherwise, what was the point? Do you know how many people dropped dead before they were able to truly enjoy the things that they worked so hard to acquire?

    This means that overtime must also go. The time and a half that they offer you for 2 hours of overtime should not be worth your health, or allowing them to cut into your down time. All that money is already gone by the time you use it to pay off a couple of bills. Where is your cut? The solution is to work on personal projects in your spare time that will provide the financial freedom you need to retire early, and comfortably. So comfortably in fact, that nothing they offer you will be enough to make you jump out of your skin.

    Respect the law of the 3 eights. Never work more than 8 hours in a single day. The only exception is if you are self-employed, working from home. In that case, you don’t have to get in your car, and commute to a job, so you have more time.

    It is entirely up to you if that time should be dedicated to sleep, work or recreation. You can work 10 hours a day, which would take two hours off your recreational time. You can then split your 6 recreational hours evenly on both ends, or you can take an hour for breakfast on the front end, then the remaining 5 hours on the back end.

    At that point, you have more flexibility to freestyle it to your preference, as working from home is a real game changer. Whatever you do, never borrow from your sleeping time. This warning applies to you whether you are a night owl, or a morning peacock. It does not make a difference when you choose to sleep. That time is truly sacred, and should be non-negotiable.

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  • The Buckinchere Hypothesis on fixing a broken Circadian Rhythm

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Mar 10, 2024

    Today, March 10th, is the beginning of Daylight Savings time in 48, of the 50 states (the exceptions are Arizona and Hawaii). It is a practice that was started back in 1908 where people would set their clocks one hour ahead of standard time, so as to allow for increased productivity of the workforce. They sneakily skip the hour of 2:00 am, as you sleep on Saturday night, hoping you wouldn’t notice.

    But what actually happens is that many people go out into the world feeling more sleep deprived than usual, being awake an hour earlier than they are used to. Many of them cause accidents, as they make the mistake of getting behind a steering wheel under those conditions.

    Americans are generally sleep deprived on a grand scale, and do not need the event of daylight savings time as an excuse to skip out on a few extra hours of sleep. Nonetheless, I feel like now is as good a time as ever to present my findings on a hypothesis I have pertaining to the circadian rhythm, and how to reset it if it is broken.

    Now as I am sure you must know, sleep is very important for human health and functionality. It resets your mind, body and soul for the day ahead. It also balances your blood sugar levels, boosts your immune system, and provides a general feel, and look of wellness. Have you ever heard someone say that they need their beauty sleep? Why, there is even a brand of mattress called either “Beauty Sleep,” or “Beauty Rest.”

    Sleep is very important, but grossly undermined in an industrialized, capitalist economy such as the United States. Some people are used to running on four hours a night. And the way they figure it, sleep is a waste of time that they can more than make up for on the back end. That is a personal decision, but what they fail to realize is that if they continue to neglect their need for quality sleep in the present, it will affect their quality of life in their autumn years. If it is worth it to them, then who am I to be concerned?

    However, with the advent of AI, and the internet, there may soon be a paradigm shift in the workforce. As AI becomes the employee, the employee becomes the employer, of his own operations that is. When that happens, more people will be working from home, and will be better capable of carrying out the details of my hypothesis than they would have otherwise been able. If you still have a 9 to 5 job as of now, this is especially for you.

    Now for starters, there are 24 hours, not in a day, but rather, in a daily cycle. There are roughly 16 hours in a day during the summer solstice, 8 hours in a day during the winter solstice, and 12 hours in a day during the two equinoxes. But there are always 24 hours in a daily cycle. Within each daily cycle, there are 8 different times of day, spanning 3 hours each.

    1. Sunrise (6:00 am – 9:00 am)
    2. Late-rise (9:00 am – 11:59 am)
    3. Midday (12:00 pm)
    4. Afternoon (12:01 pm – 3:00 pm)
    5. Late Day (3:00 pm – 6:00 pm)
    6. Evening (6:00 pm – 9:00 pm)
    7. Night (9:00 pm – 11:59 pm)
    8. Midnight (12:00 am)
    9. Latenight (12:01 am – 3:00 am)
    10. Reset; otherwise called The Witching Hour (3:00 am – 5:59 am)

    As you can see, only midday, and midnight are not a part of the 8, three hour times of day. They mark the two halves of a daily cycle, and last only one minute each. Winter evenings are fully dark outside. Summer evenings have roughly 80 minutes of sunset, about 20 minutes of dusk, then another 80 minutes of darkness. Hence why they call it evening.

    A circadian rhythm is the time of day that you tend to sleep more than other times. Most people are natural night sleepers, but there are some day sleepers as well. Night sleepers feel the urge to wake up when the sun rises, and the urge to fall asleep when it gets cold and dark outside. The sun’s natural plasma aids in keeping people awake all day, and your smartphone screen is like an artificial source of plasma that causes insomnia. Which is why it is harmful for you to mindlessly scroll through social media while lying in bed at night.

    That does not work for everybody, as day sleepers can effortlessly sleep during the daytime with the curtains wide open, while living the “vampire life” at night. I guess it is true what they say, “the diversity of human idiosyncrasies takes all forms.” But what actually causes a difference in circadian rhythms? I once heard a theory that the time of day that we were born may have had an effect on our body’s natural circadian rhythm. It is entirely up to you if you want to respect the universal reset time, or your own natural circadian rhythm. But whatever you choose, this article is for those who want to sleep at night.

    Most sleep studies recommend that you sleep for roughly 8 hours a night. There are multiple sleep cycles, per night. Sleep cycles can last anywhere from 80, to 100 minutes, with a strong 90 minute probability on average. Going along with the 90 minute sleep cycle, 5 cycles are 7 and a half hours long, 6 cycles are 9 hours, and 8 cycles are 12 hours. Most people sleep between 5 and 6 cycles depending on how tired they are.

    If you make a concerted effort to get into bed at 10:00 pm, 7 nights a week, you will eventually retrain your brain to fall asleep at 10:30 pm on a nightly basis. The only exceptions to that rule would be on party nights, or if you have to catch a night flight. If you fall asleep at 10:30 pm, you will awake sometime between 6:00 am, and 6:30 am. If moderately tired, you will awake anytime between 7:30 and 8:00 am.

    If you are either sick, or exhausted, you will need 12 hours, and 8 full cycles of sleep on those nights. In that case, I recommend going to bed an hour earlier than usual. Sleep from 9:00 pm to 9:00 am, then take it easy the next day. Exhaustion should be an extremely rare occurrence, because stress will kill, and your job will hire your replacement much faster than your loved ones are able to identify your body in the morgue. Never allow yourself to reach the point of exhaustion. End the meeting or phone call, or politely excuse yourself. Your health comes first.

    From midnight to 6:00 am is the universal reset period, and completing your first cycle before midnight will give you a good head start, and allow for more restful sleep. From 3:00 am to 6:00 am is the second, and certainly the deeper of the two reset times within a night. By the time it is 3:00 am, you should already be on your fourth cycle, in your deepest state of sleep. There is a reason why they call it, “The Witching Hour.” There is an old wives tale that nothing good happens past 3:00 am. At 3:00 am, you should be far away in dreamland, and numb to the worries of this world.

    You should only strive to wake up during sunrise. Do not allow laterise to catch you still in bed, unless you are sick. Otherwise you are more likely to have a relapse. If you start your day at 7:30 am, you will find that you now have some extra hours for increased productivity. If your evening down time starts at 7:00 pm, then you have about 12 hours, or so, to be productive. Do you have any idea how many activities you can cram into your new day? Both personally, and professionally?

    Try my hypothesis for no less than one year, in order to completely reset your circadian rhythm. After a whole year, the possibility of relapsing into your old ways will be drastically reduced. You may even find yourself thinking about throwing out your alarm clock.

    Finally, my sleep hypothesis, coupled with the advent of AI, and the paradigm shift in the workforce will cause daylight savings time, along with your annoying alarm clock to become obsolete. It is only a matter of time.

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  • Rise of the crazy cat ladies

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Mar 3, 2024

    There is a movement of men calling themselves “Passport Bros.” They are a class of men who are tired of western feminism and entitlement. As such, they have opted to travel overseas in pursuit of more traditional wives, and some long overdue freedom. The Passport bros movement has proven to be a thorn in the side of modern women. Because it means that she is losing the only leverage she has ever had over men, the leverage of sexual access. Passport Bros is still a grassroots movement, but it is quickly gaining traction. And the more popular it becomes, the more the feminists stand to lose.

    This has led to a rise of the crazy cat ladies. You know, the type of woman who will die alone with 25 cats, and a vibrator. It is very strange to me that so many women are ending up single, because I remember a time when single women were almost unheard of. The only women who were single at that time were either willfully abstinent (usually for religious reasons), or batshit crazy. Apart from that, it was mostly men who were single. Especially younger men who had yet to acquire any sustainable resources that made him an attractive suitor in the eyes of most modern women, especially gold diggers.

    This paradigm shift is a much welcome addition to the human story. Do you know why the ideologies of MGTOW, and Passport Bros were conceived in the first place? To give men more options outside of toxic dating and relationship dynamics. We didn’t think that this many women would end up single because of it. We just didn’t give a damn! This is better than anything we could have possibly anticipated at the grassroots level.

    Did they feel bad for us when they thought that all the cards were etched in their favor? So why should we feel bad for them now? That is not our problem! Make no mistake, now is the time to double down more than ever before. Her juice is just not worth the squeeze.

    I, B. Lorenzo Buckinchere, personally will not rest until I am satisfied that every last leverage that women have held over the heads of men all these many years, is destroyed forever. I have made it my life’s mission, may God be my judge.

    What the Passport Bros are doing is having an impact in a really big way. Otherwise there would not be that many anti-passport bro social media content being dropped on the daily. Which is ironic to me, because I always thought they favored thugs, criminals and jackasses, over decent men. Come to find out, we are the goddamn prize after all.

    At the same time, don’t get it twisted. Their feelings towards us haven’t changed, they just want to regain their leverage over us at all cost. And will say whatever it takes to get it, like a crack fiend. That’s all it is. You know something? God must be good for allowing me to live long enough to see this day. Let’s just say that there will be many more crazy cat ladies to come. All in due time!

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  • She is not your girl, it’s just your turn

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Feb 18, 2024

    Any typical man would be concerned if he suspected his wife of infidelty. But poor men, generally speaking, tend to be more jealous and possessive of their women than their wealthier counterparts.

    Wealthy men on the other hand tend to have more of a liberal approach to infidelity. Of course they would still hurt if they were to feel betrayed. Afterall it’s just human nature.

    But there is something different in how they choose to handle it. Perhaps it is a difference in cultural mindset, but the wealthy are more likely to be cuckolds than the poor. If you don’t know what a cuckold is, it is a man who is sexually gratified at the thought of his wife sleeping with other men.

    Not only does he tolerate her cheating ways, he actually encourages it. A cuckold will even go so far as to roleplay that his wife is a dirty cheating slut. And he will grind out her needle eye rather vigorously as she confesses her many sleazy love affairs to him. In more extreme cases, he actually likes to watch his wife in bed with another man, and may even join them for a threesome. For those who are more audibly stimulated, talking dirty, and calling her a slut will cause him to cum harder. Or perhaps in some instances, it will cause them both to cum harder, together.

    This is a genuine fetish that some men have for sex workers and slutty women in general. So much so that some of the cuckolded men do not want to settle down and start a family because they think sluts are more exciting, but prudes are boring and mundane. It seems to me that the only name they have to go by is Cuckold. But to avoid confusion, one should be aware that it is the man who is a cuckold, and not his fetish. So far as I know, they still have yet to give an official title to this rather adventurous fetish in question. It is definitely a form of polyamory, and certainly a form of voyeurism. But why don’t I just call it “Pornephilia?” A fetish for whores!

    Say what you will about sluts and cucks, many of them have genuinely happier marriages, and way more active sex lives than the insecure poor man with nothing to offer but toxicity. With that said, if cuckoldry is not your thing, then obviously don’t engage in it. But also, quit being a dick. What is the difference in cultural mindset why the wealthy are more likely to be cuckolds than the poor?

    To be honest, cuckoldry is not exclusive to the wealthy. Any man can be a cuck. It just so happens that wealthy men can afford to practice more forms of hedonistic indulgence, far more often. The main requirement is to be open minded about women and sex. A secondary requirement is to have an accurate understanding as it relates to the purpose of the female gender in the bedroom.

    Now I don’t know about other men, but personally, I have compartmentalized in my head, the two main types of women. Sluts and prudes. Sluts are your concubines, but prudes are for breeding your offspring. My children, especially the boys, are the immortalization of my lineage on this plain of existence. If she wants to be a slut after she is done giving birth, I don’t care what she does. But giving birth to my flesh and blood is a delicate process that will not be compromised under any circumstances. On the other hand, if I have categorized her as a concubine, then I could care less who she sleeps with. Because I understand that she is not my girl, it’s just my turn. She is not my property, I am not looking for commitment, and she can do whatever she wants with her body as long as I get my turn.

    As crude as that may sound to some, the thing to remember is that the reason why poor, ignorant men are so jealous and possessive of their women, is because they have a scarcity mindset that transfers to other areas of their lives. His emotional quotient is so low, that if he is not into cuckoldry, and he even remotely suspects his woman of cheating, he would much rather argue with her, and almost risk killing her than to go find another girl.

    He has bought a lie that she is some perfect angel who can do no wrong. And because of his low EQ, his ego cannot handle it when he discovers the reality of her inherently selfish nature as a female. As such, he tries to force her to change into his idea of who she ought to be versus accepting the reality of who she is, and then take it from there. Hurting and controlling other people is the only way he knows how to hold on to the very little that he is so used to having for much of his life. And that IS his problem, you see. That is the kind of scarcity mindset that will keep him jaded and unfulfilled for the rest of his life.

    Any man who wants to control and possess another living creature with a mind of its own, is a FOOL. You cannot watch her 24/7. You have to fall asleep at some point. And even if you put a chastity belt around her waist, she can always use her mouth if she really wants to cheat. Just think about how many “virgins” had other boyfriends before they got married. The only reason why she bled on her wedding night is because she used her other two orifices to preserve her virginity for matrimony. This is a more common practice in the east than it is in the west.

    What I understand about women is what most wealthy, and intellectual men alike also understand. She is human first, with flaws and desires just like everybody else. And she is good for just one thing. Wealthy minded men are high value men with a sense of abundance. Even if they are genuinely hurt by her cheating, they are not going to let their cheating wife stand in the way of them and their next million. They have board meetings and business trips to attend. The most they may do is get a divorce, and find someone else. But they do not have time to stand there and argue all day. There are a million different women throwing themselves at your feet once you get to that level.

    Sluts are party animals. They are fun loving but they drive kind’a fast. So you should only have fun with her, but do not allow yourself to catch any real feelings for her, unless you want to get hurt in the process. If you know you cannot handle the sight of her laughing and dancing with another man, then don’t talk to the slut. You will try to break her neck, and end up getting hurt yourself.

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  • Love Triangles are Narcissistic

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Feb 11, 2024

    Three days from now on February 14 will be The Feast of Lupercalia, otherwise known as Valentine’s Day. And although I do not celebrate pagan holidays in general, I figured that now is as good a time as any to discuss this love related topic. A love triangle is when two people are fighting over the same person. It can be either two men fighting over the same woman, or two women fighting over the same man. It can also be that two men are fighting over the same man, or two women fighting over the same woman. Whatever the case may be, they are hoping to win over the affection of the person being fought over.

    Popularized in the media, love triangles have often been at the center of some very complex soap plots. It can be a lot of fun to watch your favorite characters go through love triangles on television, and there are plenty of people who think that it’s a pretty cute idea to live out their favorite soap fantasies in real life. They think it is cute, until the moment there is bloodshed.

    I have always been perplexed by love triangles. It shows that the people doing the fighting have a very low self-esteem. And it leaves me wondering what in blazes could be so special about that one person in particular that is worth fighting over. Even if the person being fought over is encouraging the “third wheel” to fight to win her affection, it is up to the third wheel in question to brush her aside, and cut them both off should it become necessary. But maybe it’s just me. After all, I am not the jealous type.

    The way I see it, every woman has a needle eye between her legs. So with 8 billion people on earth, and at least half of the 8 billion being women, no woman on earth is worth the life of another man. It would be bad enough, yet understandable if she was the last woman on earth. But with as much as 4 billion women by estimate, you have no excuse as to why you can’t just find another woman.

    I think that love triangles are very narcissistic because the two people fighting each other over someone else only care about what they want. They care more about what they want than they care about the needs of the very person they are actually fighting over. When in reality, the only thing that matters is the decision of the person being fought over. The pursued would ideally choose one of the two people fighting over them.

    But for all they know, the pursued can easily decide to leave town, forever. Either that, or perhaps they are secretly bi-sexual, and may decide to switch their orientation, whether temporarily, or permanently. Or they can even become willfully abstinent, and join a convent. In either case, it will then be painfully obvious that their future plans don’t include you. You really thought that song was about you.

    I can understand if a guy and his friend went out together to a bar one night, and they see a girl they both like. What usually happens in that case is that one guy calls dibs on the blonde, and the other guy chooses the brunette friend of the blonde. Or he goes looking for another blonde if he likes blondes that much.

    It is very unlikely that they would end up in a love triangle, because they do not know any of the girls at the bar well enough to form an emotional attachment with them. When a guy calls dibs on one broad, his friend chooses another broad. If they both call dibs on the same girl at the same time, then they discuss it like gentlemen. Even though they should really allow the girl to choose, the male ego will override that logic.

    That is not how love triangles are typically formed. There is usually an established spouse already in the picture, and a home wrecker who is out to destroy them for their own personal gain. Sometimes, the home wrecker doesn’t even want the person they are fighting over, they just want to compete with the spouse for their own personal amusement, to prove that they are the better pick.

    This is a very prevalent practice within Jamaican kerosene oil culture. “Kerosene Oil” is a term that was popularized by the Politricks Watch YouTube channel, that is used to describe the Jamaican bad girl type. The kerosene oil loves love triangles like a fat kid loves cake. They thrive on drama and attention like a bad heroin habit, and they don’t care who gets hurt in the process. Especially if the wife at home is a “Maybelline” type who the kerosene oil resents for being too posh and proper. A single day without some form of mix-up and blender is flat like a brewer’s droop. Not even rainy days are out of the question.

    If the person they are fighting over is foolish enough to choose the home wrecker over their loving spouse, they deserve everything that is coming their way when the home wrecker eventually turns on them. The home wrecker is only out for kicks. What did you think was going to happen?

    But what if her spouse at home is not so loving, and it is actually the third wheel who wants to swoop in and save her from an abusive relationship? Once again, he is living out some kind of hero complex solely for kicks. If she is being abused, she can go to the police, or divorce him and meet someone new. But her savior doesn’t have to be you necessarily.

    I hate cheating with a passion, but if you want to have multiple sex partners, then the responsible thing to do is to just be honest about your intentions right from the jump, and allow each person to choose whether or not they want to remain involved with you. It will save everyone involved a lot of heartbreak and wasted time.

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  • Does feminism really preach women’s empowerment?

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Feb 4, 2024

    The short answer is, yes it does. But at the expense of who exactly?

    When I look back on the history of feminism, I entirely understand why it was necessary at the time. There was a labor shortage during the second World War, due to an army draft of the men in the workforce. Most jobs at the time were factory assembly jobs, and the labor force was male dominated. When the labor shortage had occurred, it created a paradigm shift in the workforce, because it meant that they had to replace the male employees with their wives. When the men came back home from the war, and were given first preference and higher pay, the now female dominated workforce started lobbying for equal rights and justice. That gave birth to first wave feminism.

    Feminism had humble beginnings, and perhaps the best intentions. At the very least, their hearts were in the right place. Do you believe that modern day feminism is the same now as it was at the grassroots level, almost a century earlier? Grassroots level feminism was only the first wave. The wave that exists today is the third. All we can see today is selfishness, entitlement, and women faking mental illnesses for the sake of attention. Is that what the grassroots pioneers of feminism wanted? Perhaps it was, but I really don’t think so. Whatever it is, feminism does not benefit mankind as a whole. It does not even benefit normal women. It only benefits the freaks who subscribed to the malignant, misandric version of feminism.

    They said that women are being oppressed. Yet and still, they have the privilege of being able to target a man for destruction. And they will garner the support of most of society, faster than their male target is able to do. Those who do not openly support them will likely remain silent out of fear of being persecuted themselves. The feminists will receive the support of other women, even though they really can’t stand each other, and certainly the support of idiot simp men who are just trying to get laid.

    Why would they want to target a man for destruction?

    Because he is not allowing them to define his reality by supporting their false narratives, and fantasies of grandeur. And for that, they want him to be utterly eliminated. Does that sound like someone with a freedom fighting cause to you? Or does it sound more like the very machiavellian control freak they said they are fighting against?

    If feminism was once a freedom fighting cause, that is not the case today. These women are misandrists on steroids, and they want absolute, total and unchallenged power over men. When all else fails, they will #MeToo him as a last resort. They will not rest until he is totally bankrupt, jailed, or dead. Did I mention the part about them being machiavellian control freaks? Just making sure!

    Yet they will turn around, and play the victim by accusing any man they cannot control, of being a misogynist. That is obviously a projection on their part. If men were misogynists like they said we are, rapists would not be in prison. Women would not be able to vote, work a job, run their own business, or be able to purchase any form of property. Furthermore, show me one woman who has invented, or produced any of the modern amenities that they so often take for granted.

    Where were any of them when construction crews were paving the city streets during the overnight hours, in the rain, or the night dew, away from their families? Who farmed, and harvested your fruits and vegetables? Who slaughtered the animals that you may have meat to eat without getting any blood on your hands? Who loaded up the trucks, and drove your food to the city so that the shelves at the grocery stores would not be empty?

    Who clears your septic tank so that your toilet does not spill over on the bathroom floor? Who risked his neck in a mining shaft to mine for the very granite that was used to build your kitchen countertop? What if the mining shaft had caved in, and trapped the men inside for days without food, water, or fresh air? Would you as a woman be able to survive under the same conditions? Yet they have the audacity to treat men like we are expendable. Will any of them last one week if all men were to leave the country tonight? Who will throw out the mouse hiding in their kitchen cupboard without us?

    Before they talk, they should visit “Islamistan,” where they can see signs of real misogyny before they dare fix their mouth to call another western man a misogynist. Women over there are not allowed to go out in public without wearing a veil over their faces in the middle of a damn 95 degree sandbox. If they try to get an education, the very education that most western women take for granted, they risk getting shot and killed by Taliban forces. Think about that before you complain that women are being oppressed just because your petty appetites are not being readily validated on demand.

    Things are really bad, but what use is there of crying over spilt milk? The way to defeat this menace is in learning how the freaks get their false sense of power, and then circumventing them and finding alternatives. For example, there is an abnormally high number of men who are involuntary celibates. That is because one of the ways in which feminists try to control men is by restricting our dating options. There are some cases where men are willfully abstinent, because all their dating options are toxic, and they would much rather stay single than deal with an instant migraine in their lives on a daily basis. Other men are not even lucky enough to choose in the first place.

    Whatever the cause, the best way to circumvent the malignant status quo that the psychopaths have created, is in borrowing from the pages of our MGTOW brothers, and also go our own way. Where you go, and for how long will depend on whether, or not you can live without female companionship? Why don’t we test the limits of their boundaries, and see how far and wide their so-called power can spread? More on that later.

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  • Can money make you happy?

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Jan 28, 2024

    Well, it depends on the individual. But personally, it makes me very happy. Let me explain!

    I awake each “morning,” and roll over in my bed to check the time. Then I put on my robe, open my drapes to observe the scenery before making my bed. I then go to the bathroom to void my bladder. After I wash my hands, I go into my refrigerator to pour myself a glass of my favorite beverage that I sip on while I prepare a meal of my choice (I don’t like continental breakfast). I eat to the sound of whatever it is that I chose to hear, be it music, or podcast. Then I do the dishes before checking my daily schedule to see if I have any errands to run on the road for that day in question. I then shower before getting dressed in the clothing of my choice. Then I get in my car, where I select the playlist of my choice.

    If I said “My Choice” a lot just now, well that is because it is impossible for me to be happy if I can’t have it my way. That is why I have made a conscious decision to remain a bachelor halfway through my thirties, and will likely still be a bachelor at 80. Having one’s own way is not a luxury that many can afford. So the money does not make me happy by itself, it is what you buy with it. For me, it is being afforded the privacy and security that I could not take for granted during my early twenties when I first arrived in the US, and was living with toxic ex-relatives in Brooklyn. For me, it is being afforded the basic necessities of food, clothing, shelter, and transportation that the homeless, and the orphans would consider a luxury.

    Being afforded the privilege of enjoying this luxury is one that makes me very happy because I am a minimalist at heart, and it doesn’t take much to make me happy. Only my space, my freedom, and a little bit of hedonistic indulgence that’s all. My materialism mostly plays itself out as it relates to domestic comfort. I don’t care about buying all those fancy shoes, cars and jewelry to impress a bunch of assholes I could care less about. With that said, half my burden has already been neutralized. If you need all those materialistic items to make you happy, it might make you temporarily happy. But once again, it depends on the individual.

    My guess is that it probably would not make you happy in the long term. That is because your motivations are all about impressing those who are external to yourself. This is something that is deeply rooted in ego and insecurity. The need to fill a gap that only God, or yourself can fill. Not money or the superficial praise you get from your peers. I have never had that problem, and at this point, I likely never will. I have always understood the true value of money. Yet the people who are exactly as I have described, have always fought tooth and nail to keep money out of my hands.

    Is it that they are insecure that I could be so happy with so little, and they can’t? Are they afraid that I might actually expose them by the very comparison of how I choose to live my own life versus how they choose to live theirs? Whether or not that is the case, I cannot imagine a person who is truly content with their own lives trying to tear someone else down, out of envy, and competition. Can you? Do you still think they are happy, or that money makes them happy?

    Were they actually content with their lives until the moment I happened to show up with my satisfied, minimalist self? Did I trigger their hidden demons when I showed up? Whether or not I triggered their demons is irrelevant. The bottom line is that they still had them regardless. If anything, I made them undeniably aware that they have a problem. And it is now up to them to either get some professional help, or keep being a criminal menace until the day they mess with the wrong person and pick up a knuckle sandwich in their rassclaat.

    Did you know that many millionaires live quiet, minimalist lives? They drive a 2008 Camry, live in suburban homes, and are very happy. You see them everyday, and you would never know that they are wealthy. This is what is known as being frugal, which is not to be confused with being a cheapskate. Have you ever heard of someone named Warren Buffet? He’s the real deal, and I take off my hat to the investment genius. Can you guarantee that your next door neighbor isn’t a millionaire? If they are, I am willing to gamble that they are far happier than the fake rich freaks of nature, who are trying to live beyond their means to impress people.

    If you like purchasing expensive brand name items because it makes you truly happy without you caring about impressing other people, then you are an exception, and I must commend you for your exceptional character. You are not who I am talking about. You are actually more like me. The difference is that you care about expensive brand names, and I don’t. I don’t see any reason why we can’t respect each other. Do you?

    The people I have condemned in this article have been stricken with vanity to a freakish proportion to which they cannot even think straight. For example, I want to buy an F-150 pick-up. My girlfriend thinks it is a great idea for us to own a truck, until she sees me loading our old refrigerator onto the truck bed. She is worried that the refrigerator might scratch up the truck bed, and she would be so embarrassed if any of her cool friends were to see her being driven around town in a truck with a scratched truck bed.

    But I’m looking at her like, what did you think the point was of me buying a truck in the first place? So that I am able to move the refrigerator by putting it to stand up in the truck bed, because it will leak refrigerant and stop working if I put it to lie down for even a second. She is missing the point if she is worried about the stupid truck. The truck is meant to transport large household appliances, so we can save money by DIY moving to another apartment without having to call professional movers.

    I am not worried about the truck, so long as there aren’t any mechanical failures under the hood. That’s what really counts. Heck, I’ll even buy an old beat up truck from 1995 if she is going to be worried about wear and tear. Do you see my point of this scenario? Boys have toys, and men have resources. I only purchase items for their practical uses, and only when it is absolutely obvious that I won’t be able to do without them. Lucky for me, this scenario was entirely fictional. This is why I am single, folks. So as you can see, it is actually vanity, and not wealth that is the root of greed. And vanity is rooted in insecurity, not hunger. I am hungry!

    Finally, a lot of people are harboring feelings of guilt about becoming wealthy. They believe that wealth makes them greedy, and selfish, but nothing could be further from the truth. They have accepted a cruel and wicked lie that was designed for the sole purpose of keeping them stagnated in life. The very bible that religious zealots often misuse to push the false narrative that money is the root of all evil, also said that one should be fruitful and multiply.

    The bible also said, “ask, and it shall be given.” The purpose of life is the pursuit of happiness. Even if you say you don’t need money to be happy, I also cannot imagine you being happy living in abstract squalor. Vanity is a disease, but so is poverty. They are two sides of the same coin, because it creates a status quo of uneven wealth distribution within the wider society. I have never felt the need to box food out of another man’s mouth in order to feel superior. My ego is not threatened by the thought of wealth equality. I have always held the firm belief that all men can, and must eat a food. For me, the balance lies in minimalism. What is the balance for you?

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  • Beware of false prophets bearing news of good fortune

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Jan 21, 2024

    In recent years, there has been a noticeable rise of self-proclaimed prophets on social media, who claim that they can audibly hear the voice of God. They claim that their mission is to serve as God’s mouthpiece to those who may need help finding a clear sense of direction in life, and they often come bearing news of good fortune. For example, news of health, wealth, prosperity, and this thing they call a “Kingdom Marriage.”

    Firstly, though there are some men who are social media prophets, it is mostly women who are doing this. They are appealing to lonely-hearted women in need of a husband, who no longer wish to continue “living in sin.” A Kingdom marriage is basically their way of saying that it is a God ordained marriage, and a kingdom spouse is supposed to be a God ordained person who was sent into your life. There was a recent story of a woman who prayed for a husband, and he ended up murdering her. The thing to remember here is that there are two kingdoms in the universe.

    I have no doubt that some of these prophets can see and hear in the spirit. I’m just not sure which one of the gods they are receiving their downloads from. It has been written in Matthew 7:15 to “beware of false prophets who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly, they are ravening wolves.” But it doesn’t, or perhaps it shouldn’t matter to you, whether, or not they can hear from any deity. Why does one need a prophet to help them navigate life, when God already gave you a brain to think for yourself?

    The earth is a classroom for the soul. Whether by choice or by force, the soul came here to learn and evolve throughout a series of hardships on a path towards finding ultimate peace and lasting contentment. The teacher is always silent during the test, especially when you consider that he gave you a brain. Would it not then make perfect sense, that the side who wants to give you the ‘cheat code’ to life is not the benevolent side? And if the enemy does not want you to figure it out, then it would only make perfect sense that the “cheat codes” he sent his angels to give you under the guise of caring is actually full of sabotage.

    The bible warns readers to avoid horoscopes and fortune telling. It has even been said in Dante’s Inferno, that fortune tellers will spend the rest of eternity walking throughout the afterlife with their heads turned backwards. Most of the “prophecies” coming from these YouTube prophets have a large emphasis on material gain and kingdom spouses. Now that is not to say that there aren’t any real prophets in the world. But the way to tell them apart is to see if all they talk about is material wealth, and kingdom marriage.

    There are many forms of wealth in life, and material gain is just one of them. One of the greatest forms of wealth is actually wisdom. It is with the wealth of wisdom that one learns how to retain material wealth. Too bad wisdom is often overlooked. As far as I am concerned, a true prophecy imparts wisdom onto its receiver, who would then use the wealth of wisdom to improve every other area of his life, including love and money. But his heart and mind must be taken care of first, because after all, if the head isn’t right, the body cannot be right.

    Instead of waiting for instructions from strangers on the internet whose intentions are not readily known to you, my recommendation is to go ahead and do whatever it is that you were going to do in the first place. God can choose whether or not to honor your actions. If he honors you, great. If not, as we say in Jamaica, “wheel and come, again.” If you fall 10 million times, get back up 10 million and one times. Like the phoenix, you must keep rising from the ashes, gaining strength and wisdom after every attack.

    Because after all, true faith is not in waiting for instructions, or waiting for a genie in a lamp to work some magic, but in demonstrating your own potential by taking a leap of faith. That is how I ended up moving to California 8 years ago. I moved here with all the savings I had managed to accumulate from working my healthcare job in New York at the time. I purchased a one-way ticket to LAX without knowing anyone over here. I took a leap of faith, because I wanted to live here badly enough, and it worked. Not even a month later, I had my own apartment in LA, and as they say, the rest is history.

    Waiting is not inherently bad, it could literally save your life under the right circumstances. But you have to learn when to wait, and when to act. Waiting when it is time to act could cause delays. And who would rather see us enduring stagnation? The all-loving, benevolent God of creation, or the god of destruction? If you want something badly enough, it is always best to take the leap of faith than to rely on the prophecy of another mortal whose intentions are not immediately clear to you.

    You should also learn to find the balance, so as not to burn yourself out on a wild goose chase. If this seems scary to you, always remember that God gave you a brain of your own that you may think if you so choose. It is up to you to use your brain to sharpen your discernment.

    It would have been bad enough if there were only a handful of them. But when it is just this many of them, it should be pretty damn obvious at this point that false prophecy is their primary hustle. Sometimes it is their only source of income. Can you trust that they have YOUR best interest at heart if money is their main motivation?

    Finally, do not let archaic religious dogma cause you to create unnecessary sexual repression to the point where you find yourself falling for online kingdom marriage scams much too easily, because you would much rather marry a potential enemy, than burn with passion. I don’t think that the God of creation is offended by you having sex outside of marriage. He created you as a sexual being. If anything, he probably wants you to be more responsible with whom you share a bed. And whether you and your partner produce a new life together. But he does not want you to abstain from sex.

    Allow me to provide some context on what Charlie Sheen from Two and a half Men, meant when he said, “Who gave me the penis, Alan?” There are humans on earth who do not have any form of sexuality. That is because they were born without sex hormones, regardless of their gender identity. They are called asexuals. If God did not want you to have sex, he would have made you into an asexual, but he didn’t. He gave you your sexuality because he intended for you to use it, and enjoy it, guilt free.

    Sex is not just for married people, and marriage is certainly not meant for everyone. Some people truly cannot handle the concept of living for another living being besides themselves. If marriage is something that you truly want to do. Great! Go get married! But do so without the allure of this perfect kingdom marriage, and be prepared to put in the work and the sacrifice that is required to actually make it work.

    There are some people who just want to live by themselves, and still need to enjoy sex from time to time. They should feel free to do so without guilt. Do not let guilt be the reason why you rush into a so-called kingdom marriage with a potential enemy, and end up getting killed. I wish they would just stop with the damn rubbish already. Anyhow, I have restored your sexual freedom, now go forth and live out the rest of your days on your own terms.

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  • The role of the police within society

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Jan 14, 2024

    Do you remember back in Kindergarten when they taught us to believe that the police are our friends? Well that is not true, and for good reason. They are not supposed to be our friends, because then it’s only fair that they would be expected to be everyone’s friend, including the criminals.

    Ideally, the role of the police is to maintain peace, order and safety within society. And they should do so impartially, otherwise that would give room to corruption. But what happens when the public wants to railroad an innocent neighbor? Does the police then preserve the peace of the majority at the expense of the one? After all, the only rule of a democracy is that majority rules. Right?

    Here is why democracy does not work. If your only rule is that majority rules, then what would one do when the majority becomes more concerned about the strength of their numbers over the ethics of their actions? We have to remember that an unjust action does not become justified based on how many people are in support of that action. All that means is that you have more people to correct.

    If you asked me, democracy is dangerous if left unchecked. Both democracy and socialism have their pros and cons. In socialism, the few oppress the many, while in a democracy, the many oppress the few. And the police are only there, not to protect everyone like they should, but to protect the majority at the expense of the few.

    Even if they feel it is unjust, there are not very many of them who are willing to act upon what they know to be right. Most of them would be quicker to penalize the retaliation of the targeted individual, than the oppression of the majority. As such, they allow injustice to thrive on their watch. This is what is called “group think.” It is true that the police should remain impartial, but they only seem to remain ‘impartial’ against the minority. If that targeted individual was a part of the majority, he might also have been given the mistaken impression that the police were impartial, until it happened to him too. It happened to me too.

    This is what is called gang-stalking, or community mobbing. When the police become facilitators of gang-stalking against one innocent target, I personally have lost all respect for them. Of course I am not going to argue with them in the streets because I don’t have a death wish. But that is why we have the press. Write to the press, or start your own blog. Document everything they do. There is POWER in the tongue, or in this case, the pen. We have to become the community watchdogs. We cannot allow cowardly criminals to take over society. Evil men can only thrive on the silence of the righteous.

    Real cops are heroes. They do not stand idly by, and allow the majority of the public to railroad one innocent person. Most importantly, they understand that siding with the majority does not make them impartial, it makes them all a part of the gang. I am all for the public’s cooperation with the police. But only if both the police and the public have a vested interest in the safety of each member of society.

    Finally, I have noticed throughout my many years in dealing with the police, that they always want to talk the victim out of going to court. They make it seem like you are more likely to get justice from them than you are to get justice from the court, when in fact, the very opposite is true. They do this because they know that the court system is the one place where they are truly powerless. They also know that you are more likely to win if you go to court, because both you and the defendant are allowed due process.

    Why would that be of any concern to them if they truly had a vested interest in seeing justice served? Wouldn’t they be glad to get the burden of your grouse off their hands? It might be an inconvenience to you now, but my recommendation is that you press charges against your offender, then lawyer up and go to court. The only things you need from the arresting officer are his name, along with the date, time, location, and report number. It is true that the court system is not perfect either, but it is worth it in the end because you are more likely to receive justice there than you would from dealing with the police.

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  • Your colleagues are NOT your friends

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Jan 7, 2024

    Exactly one year ago on this day, I was fired from my promising job, at an airport near San Diego. I stood up for the sake of truth, and what I believed in, by exposing the rotten pigs who were trying to railroad me. And although I wasn’t expecting it, it would be nice to have the support of my colleagues. Perhaps the very colleagues who were constantly complaining to me about management every Saturday night in my car as I was dropping them off from work. But to my lack of surprise, you could almost hear a pin drop while I was being railroaded, and sure enough, one year later, where are they now? Just like that, a familiar feeling has washed over me, and I thought to myself, “here we go again!” The question is, why do I keep missing the red flags, and what red flags did I miss this time?

    The first answer is actually quite simple. I keep missing the red flags because the red flags keep changing, which means that they must have been studying me behind my back to see how much I know, and what kind of game they can run. Each Psy-Op is conducted on a case by case basis. It also helps if my ex-colleagues are involved in gang-stalking, and there is some kind of pre-existing file on me that they were able to access. Why else would it seem like they already knew who I was when I was just meeting them for the first time? Technology has made gang-stalking easier! Never forget where we live, or when we live.

    Although details may change on a case by case basis, the one red flag that never changes is that colleagues (usually females) tried befriending me much too quickly. Real friendships are based on trust, and often take years to build. So if you feel like the friendship is moving too fast, especially at work, you are not the one in charge of the friendship. They are taking you for a ride, and a pretty wild one at that. No friendship should ever feel forced, or controlled. That’s really toxic, and should trigger off loud, blaring red flags in your head.

    Another red flag is if you notice an imbalance in the gender with whom you find yourself interacting more often. In my case, I was a man having more contact with females than males. Out of context, it may sound like I have just won the lottery. But remember that you are supposed to be having balanced interactions with everyone when you are at work, and always keep it professional. At one point, there were so many female colleagues, that they almost drowned out my potential to interact with male colleagues, and only so I could give them rides in my car and listen to their problems.

    I am not saying that you can’t have female friends, but not at work, and not when it’s just that many of them. That is usually a red flag that they are all part of a clique, and that they formed their clique first before deciding to befriend you. Before I knew it, they all started approaching me, one after the other without me realizing that it was more, or less the same type of girls. That’s someone trying to commandeer your life as a group.

    My ex-colleagues even helped the female manager who tried to railroad me, by inviting me to a baby shower at the last minute, and then lied that they invited me earlier. Only to help the manager spy on me by proxy, after I was already fired. It would never cross my mind to do that to anyone, but to them, it came naturally. If you like having female friends, that’s on you, but as far as I’m concerned, women make really shitty friends. They can’t even stand each other for pete’s sake! How could I expect them to be a good friend towards me? Anyway, bottom line! You need your male homies. A woman’s only place is in my bed.

    Heterosexual members of opposite genders generally don’t make very good platonic friends in any case. Even if there is no sexual tension on one part, there is bound to be sexual tension on the part of the other, which can be a very lonely experience. And even if there is no sexual tension on the part of either of them, the man is still somewhat susceptible to feminine charm, which makes it easier for her to manipulate him. The best, and brightest of men have fallen prey to the charm of the woman.

    Examples of such men would include Samson, Ahab, and King David. Your male colleagues are by no means innocent in any of this. Men can be the biggest simps when it comes to females, and will generally just support whatever she wants, at your expense. What usually happens is that everyone at the job agrees to target the one whom they feel is the safest option, and doubles down on their onslaught when their intended target fights back.

    You probably woke up to go to work with the intention of being nice to everyone. To reciprocate the friendship of anyone who befriended you, whom you also liked. But as the saying goes, “The road to HELL is paved with good intentions.” Most of your colleagues on the other hand woke up with the intention of doing whatever it takes to get ahead in the world. To kowtow to the boss, and support whatever narrative they push, however false it is. To get what they want by befriending any unsuspecting colleague. To gang-stalk, and railroad anyone they feel is a safe target (or a threat), and still expect to get treated like a good, upstanding human being, by the very people they have targeted.

    In short, your colleagues are NOT your friends. They are your competition, and they will do whatever it takes to provide food for themselves and their children. Even while they are smiling in your face, they have not lost sight of the fact that they still see you as the competition. They are hoping they can convince you otherwise, but they themselves will never forget.

    They are watching you, and waiting for the moment you make a mistake, so they can report you, get you fired, and take your share. Zero for you, double for them. They can sleep well at night so long as they can convince themselves that they did it for their kids, and that you somehow deserve what you got. This is by definition, a rat race. And who else do you expect to find in a rat race, if not a bunch of rat bastards?

    I am not saying to go to work, and be anti-social. All I am saying is to keep it amicable, but stay alert, remain impartial, and ultimately plan your exit strategy from day one. For example, you might say something to the effect of, “I’m only going to work here for 2 years to save my start-up capital so I don’t have to work for such a blasted bunch of ingrates anymore.”

    If you happen to make friends on the job, it probably won’t happen in the short term. True work friendships usually begin after you have both left the job, as hindsight is 20/20, and the best measure of loyalty. If you were able to survive the entire tenure without trying to back-stab each other, you probably would not realize that until after the end of your tenure.

    Ultimately, try to find friends outside of work. Even if you are new in town, like I was when I first started that job, get out of the house more often. Go out to your local bars and taverns during your free time. You never know who you could meet. You can finally bask in the sharing of experiences with others of similar walk, without the looming threat of rat race competition.

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