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  • What constitutes sexual immorality?

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    June 23, 2024

    Many people have varying ideas about sexual immorality, from incest to polygyny to homosexuality. For some reason, hedonism often gets a bad rap, but that is only part of the broader issue.

    It gets to the point where society would much rather label hedonistic straight men as metrosexuals, simply because they are not used to seeing straight men having good taste for the finer things in life.

    Anything you are doing that they do not like will be mislabeled as sexual immorality. For that reason, the concept of sexual immorality has become so skewed by definition, that it has lost its original meaning. Here in this article, I will be putting sexual immorality back into its proper context.

    Sexual immorality is defined as a sexual act that offends someone else. How do you sexually offend someone in a way that is valid? By forcing them to do something against their will. What kind of individuals are likely to get forced into a sex act against their will?

    A woman being raped by a man who is able to physically overpower her. A minor being molested by an adult. An animal being raped by a human. Or an intoxicated person who is not fully in charge of their mental faculties at the moment.

    As you can see, every sexual offense involves a power dynamic that allows for the more vulnerable party to be violated. In order for a crime to be committed, three conditions must be met. There must be motive, ability and opportunity.

    Ability and opportunity might both be present, but if there is no motive, no crime will be committed. How does one become a victim if the would-be offender is not remotely interested in sexually engaging them to begin with?

    And so therefore, they have no business getting offended by you doing something that does not involve them in the least. As a matter of fact, they are sticking their nose where it doesn’t belong because they were not even supposed to know what you are doing.

    Two homosexual men having sex with each other is not immoral so long as they are mutually consenting adults. This is coming from a homophobic Jamaican. I may be offended by the sight of them holding hands in public. But I also respect their human rights to be who they are, and love who they love.

    Two blood relatives are free to commit acts of incest. So long as they are mutually consenting adults in the privacy of their home, and they have made up their minds that that is what they both want to do. As much as how the mere thought of incest makes me cringe, it would be rather hypocritical of me to only respect the consent of two gay lovers, but not the consent of kissing cousins.

    The 40 year old incel who made up his mind that he is finally going to pay an escort to lose his virginity is not committing a mortal sin by fornicating. As a matter of fact, fornication is a made up word that the church uses to shame and guilt people who are more sexually liberated.

    They do so by telling them that they are going to burn in hell for eternity, just for simply getting it on. Imagine that! Burning in hell alongside scammers, rapists and murderers for all eternity, just because you decided to go out and get laid.

    The polygynist who has multiple wives and concubines is not committing a sin by not committing his entire life to one woman only. His polygyny is merely the result of a different point of view. The story of creation should be unique and diverse. Imagine how boring life would be if everyone was the same.

    The hedonistic male suitor who has decided to play the field is not committing a sin by refusing to go steady. Marriage and kids are a huge responsibility. It takes a special level of patience to be a husband and father. So it is definitely not meant for everyone. Imagine how mundane life would be waking up next to the same woman, everyday for the next 50 years.

    Watching her age more and more with each passing day. Finding it hard to maintain the same level of attraction you once had for her as she gains weight and begins acting out her insecurities in ways that are both toxic and immature. Wondering if you made the right decision by going steady.

    Quit stressing over it. It is perfectly ok to play the field so long as you are honest about your intentions right from the jump. Whatever you do, do not lead people on, or intentionally break their hearts. Do unto others!

    Perhaps controlling individuals believe that those acts are immoral because they are not able to exploit them for their own selfish gain. If anything, it is the controlling party who are immoral for trying to stand in the way of you doing what you want. Afterall, sexual repression is a form of sex abuse, especially when there is a spiritual factor involved.

    Even if they don’t like what you are doing, it is not their place to stop you, so long as you are not violating others. That would be them trying to play god over your life. Which makes them an enemy of your privacy, and an enemy of free will.

    The examples of sexual immorality that I have mentioned so far are entirely related to consent, or rather, the lack of it. Well sexual repression is also related to consent, because one typically does not consent to being sexually repressed.

    Nor do they consent to being ruled by those who are external to their experience. That is something that they are being forced to accept against their will. So when controlling individuals are imposing their moral standards upon you unsolicitedly, they are sexually violating you. Which in turn makes them sexually immoral.

    It’s ironic how when you point one finger outwards, there are always three more pointing right back at you. Not only that, but they are hypocrites because they have some skeletons in their closet (often literally), that will make your so-called sins look like a Sunday stroll by comparison.

    All of them have their own personal issues that they need to address. Yet all they seem able to focus on is what you do in the privacy of your bedroom? What the hell is wrong with people?

    We need to start taking them to court for harassment. They need to know that there are consequences for their actions. Especially when it is becoming an obsession.

    No one has the right to deprive you of peace of mind. Some of them are really ignorant, and narrow-minded. But perhaps with a little education, they will see the error of their ways before it is too late.

  • My two cents on forgiveness and karmic transferral

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Jun 16, 2024

    Do you often feel as though your life is one great calamity after another? From bankruptcy, to illness, to legal troubles, to the death of a loved one. Furthermore, it seems like bad things always happen to good people. Yet the wicked cheat death for the ten thousandth time. Do you ever wonder why that always seems to be the case? I have a theory as to why that is, and what you can do to fix it for once and for all.

    Sado-masochism is a “relationship” (exchange) in which you somehow feel compelled to love the one you fear. Sado-masochistic relationships can occur romantically, familially, platonically, or employment wise. It is a form of toxic trauma bonding, and always involves the person in the submissive position being gaslit, physically abused, or otherwise humiliated, solely for the amusement of the sadist.

    The question is, why would any self-respecting person assume the submissive position within a sado-masochistic exchange? or better yet, even enter such an exchange to begin with, if they are not naturally masochistic?

    To begin with, there are only three kinds of people on earth; sadists, masochists and hedonists. Sadists gain amusement from causing pain and humiliation. Masochists gain pleasure from receiving pain. And hedonists gain pleasure from both giving and receiving pleasure. Of the three, who do you think is the healthiest personality type?

    Sadists are always on the prowl, seeking who they may devour. For them, the thrill is in the hunt. They don’t particularly enjoy hurting masochists, because they won’t put up much of a fight. Plus they rather enjoy it. For a sadist, the single greatest sense of satisfaction comes from watching a pleasure seeker squirm, as he forces them into a position where they betray their very nature. This is especially true if the sadist is envious of them.

    Who do you think the pleasure seeker in question is? But what self-respecting hedonist would end up in a sado-masochistic exchange with a sadist? And yet it happens much more often than you think. First, the sadist intentionally decides to target the hedonist with a friendly gesture that carefully masks a more sinister motive.

    But then, it’s usually not long before the mask begins to slip, and you begin noticing red flags. Hedonists are more likely to be empathic than the other two personality types. They want just as much good for others as they want for themselves. And due to their empathic nature, they tend to want to see the good in others.

    The sadist knows this about the hedonist, and will exploit it to their advantage to buy the extra time they need to inflict further pain on the hedonist, just to rub it in. As such, they will gaslight an unsuspecting hedonist into believing that they have changed, thus begging the hedonist’s forgiveness. If not themselves, they will send some of their henchmen to do so on their behalf.

    This act of remorse is all just a ploy, and a mockery of the hedonist’s intelligence. Even so, the hedonist will likely give the sadist way more chances than they could ever possibly deserve. This is usually achieved through the social pressure of the sadist’s henchmen, or the naivety of a rookie hedonist. They “love” you when you are young and dumb. A seasoned veteran would never fall for the ruse.

    The next thing you know, your whole life starts heading straight down the toilet. From illness, to bankruptcy, to legal battles, to the death of a loved one. Yet the wicked seem to cheat death ten thousand times, and you wonder why. Well why do you think?

    I have a theory.

    You see, forgiveness should only be reserved for those who are genuinely remorseful, and have taken the necessary steps to make reparations to you for damage caused. It is entirely up to you whether you want to differentiate between unintentional damage and intentionally misguided damage. But when you forgive someone who does not deserve forgiveness, their karmic debt backfires on you.

    This is because you are unknowingly signaling to the universe that you are not good enough to be deserving basic human dignity. Not only that, but also that you are more deserving of the offensive act committed by the sadist, than the sadist himself is deserving retribution for said act.

    So now what happens?

    There is now a karmic debt transferral where you witness the sadist living the very hedonistic lifestyle that was meant for your enjoyment in the first place. All while your life is going to shit. Your life is not even your own at that point, and the sadist will be sure to mock you by rubbing it in on every occasion.

    This karmic debt transferral is why many people often confuse hedonism for narcissism. They are confused by the sadist acting in a hedonistic manner, failing to realize that it is all just a ruse. Some hedonists may be narcissistic, but they are likely not narcissists. That dishonor is only reserved for the sadist.

    Very few hedonists, in fact, I would even venture to say that NO hedonist derives pleasure from someone else’s pain. Of course, this is not to be confused with the feeling of satisfaction that you get when someone who has repeatedly done you wrong without remorse, finally receives their just desserts. That is a feeling of justice, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that their pain is what the hedonist is enjoying about the experience.

    For example, if a sadist has murdered the son of a hedonist, and receives capital punishment. The hedonist will probably attend the execution, and will no doubt feel satisfied when his son’s murderer is put to death. But he more than likely will not enjoy it. The hedonist will mourn for a while. Then he will remember that life goes on, and get back to doing what he truly enjoys.

    That tragedy may even remind him that life is too short and precious. And that he should savor the good times with good people, instead of getting caught up with a time waster as malignant as sado-masochism.

    When you forgive the wrong person, or entertain the mistaken impression that they are your friend, their karmic debt backfires onto you. Perhaps it even doubles in intensity because you really ought to know better. But when you refuse to forgive them, that same karma has no choice but to attack its intended target. It is like an energetic tennis match, and that is all it takes to even the score. You just have to learn how to play the game.


  • Who are the Passport Bros?

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Jun 9, 2024

    There is a group of men who call themselves the “Passport Bros.” They are men who are disgruntled with the dating scene in the west. As such they are  traveling to foreign countries in pursuit of more traditional wives. They also travel for other reasons, such as the flexibility to work remotely as a digital nomad.

    Some also travel for some quality soul searching time, away from anyone who has ever heard of them. Although they travel for different reasons, it is an unfair generalization to suggest that the majority of them travel for better dating options.

    How did the movement get its name?

    Passport Bros are an offshoot from the “Save Your Selves Black Men” (SYSBM) movement. SYSBM was still a grassroots movement up until the 2020 Covid pandemic. It is geared towards a specific group of black men seeking to denounce a neglectful black community who never supported them. And also to explore their dating options interracially.

    But as other races of men have become disgruntled with the chaotic dating scene in the west, the term “Passport Bros” was coined as a blanket term to include those men. Additionally, some of the staunchest detractors of the Passport Bros are often low-brow women and their derelict thug boyfriends. You know, the thug boyfriends who sit on the couch all day, while she goes out and works a job to support him.

    Many years before, those same girls and their thug boyfriends used to give the passport bros a warm time, and refer to them as nerds and lames. It was all one big joke to them, and they did not care how their words affected others. While the “cool kids” were out partying on weekends and running afoul of the law, the “nerds” were home, studying and plotting their revenge.

    Many of their thug boyfriends have a history of criminality and child neglect. Their actions have led them on a path that has permanently disqualified them from any kind of passport eligibility. Meanwhile, the “nerds” remained on a narrow path. All that studying and revenge planning finally paid off. So when a certain class of international male suitors choose to refer to themselves as “Passport Bros,” they are basically saying; “we are now able to travel, and you just can’t.”

    What are the detractors hoping to accomplish by using some of those tactics?

    The detractors are full of pride and prejudice. The last thing they want is to be beaten at their own game by someone they consider socially inept. Not only that but, misery loves company. So because of their collective ego, they have decided to relentlessly attack the natural rights of the passport bros to seek health, happiness and freedom away from them.

    They have taken to social media to publicly denigrate us. With the intent of humiliating us for their own amusement. They have even gone so far as to OPENLY wish that passport bros were robbed and killed in the country of their destination. Do you have any idea how deep it would have to run for them to wish death upon someone they cannot control? Are they really that prideful and trifling?

    What other group do you know that are full of pride and prejudice?

    Schools, churches, jobs, nations, the police force, Klansmen. Families. Any so-called authority figure that has a prominent social standing within society. Any group that is divisive by nature (us vs. them). Even society as a whole can be counted among the proud ones.

    What is the one thing that all these proud groups have in common?

    Cowards run in gangs. In the grand scheme of things, there are game players and game changers. While game players throw stones and hide in groups, game changers stand alone.

    But the game changer is a fool. Doesn’t he know that standing alone will make him an easy target?

    He knows. But to him, it is worth it.

    You see, the game changer doesn’t want to be a hero. And the world didn’t ask to be saved. The world wants a hero, but they don’t want him to be their hero. The game changer is not the hero you want, but the hero you need. A true unsung hero.

    With that in mind, he must do whatever it takes to be a hero. His ONLY goal then, is to save himself. Hence the name of the movement, Save Yourselves Black Men. Because YOU need you. And when you are forsaken by the world, and even by god himself, only you can save yourself.

    But saving yourself is not just about traveling overseas and dating different women. Sure, that is a huge part of it. And my wish is for all of you to go over there and have an amazing time. However, saving yourself also requires self-care.

    Some examples of self-care include: having several passive income streams. Getting plenty of rest, relaxation, solitude and recreation. Changing your diet, and discovering what works best for you. Learning everything you can about how your mind and body works, and how to maximize efficiency. Learning better time management. Taking better care of your health (both physical and mental). Discovering your ultimate purpose in life.

    The trauma that some of you have had to endure for years is truly inhumane. No human being deserves to go through what you did, and you still haven’t fully healed from that. Please allow me to express my heartfelt empathy for what you must have been through. And also to recommend that you seek professional help to guide you on the right path.

    What are some of the other names that Passport Bros are known by?

    There are some Passport Bros who call themselves “Blue Book Gentlemen.” That is a cool name and all, but might I suggest “Passport Kings?” It never hurts to promote a little positive reinforcement of our inherent birthright. Both “Passport Kings” and “Blue Book Gentlemen” can be used interchangeably. But I feel as though “Passport Bros” is downplaying the sheer power of what we are doing, and what we are about to do.

    Finally, let me assert that “The Buckinchere Transcendence” is a Publication for Passport Kings. I may not always talk about women and dating. But I always talk about everything you need to know in order to save yourselves. On the path of transcendence, this publication can be a very useful guide towards securing the future you deserve.

  • Introduction to The Black Pill

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Jun 2, 2024

    In the sphere of social ideologies, there are four main belief systems that are expressed by the color of a pill. This idea of course, was inspired by the “The Matrix” film franchise. In this film, “Morpheus” (Laurence Fishbourne) offered “Neo” (Keanu Reeves) a choice between two pills. The blue pill, or the red pill.

    The color scheme of these pills are often used to draw comparison of the different types of men within manosphere groups. Such as; MGTOW, IBMOR, SYSBM, and PUA, etc. Our world is way more complex than for men to be reduced to two pill types only. As such, there are actually four pill types that I will be covering in this article, as well as what they represent.

    • The Blue Pill

    The blue pill represents the belief system of those who accept established narratives. Therefore, they are considered very naive. That is because they do not question anything, nor do they challenge the mainstream narrative. They go to their jobs all week long. Get paid on a Friday.

    Spend almost their entire paycheck at a bar, or nightclub. Pick up chicks. Netflix and chill. Then spend the rest of their weekend on the couch. Too stoned to even move. Return to their jobs on Monday. Repeat. Next thing you know, the bar chick from Friday night turns up pregnant. But wait, they don’t even love each other. It was supposed to be, just a hook-up.

    So now, the kid is raised in an unsustainable environment that is designed to break the spirit of who he was truly meant to be. So that he would be better qualified to be a blue pill cog in a machine, who doesn’t question the status quo. A real chip off the old block. And so, the vicious cycle continues.

    • The Red Pill

    The red pill represents the belief system of those who are “woke,” as they like to say. They see more of what is really going on. But due to social, and sexual pressure, they would still like to fit in somehow. And will resort to tactics, such as Pick-Up Art, and the like, to become more of an alpha male, in hopes that some female will find him desirable enough to sleep with him.

    Of course they are the fake version of an alpha. Because they are perfectly willing to sacrifice their true character, just to be able to grind out some passaround needle eye for two minutes. They know that this world is not quite as it seems on the surface, and that they don’t really fit in. But they are in denial, and still wish to live out the fantasy of some alpha hero who saves the world, and gets the girl in the end.

    They will go around chasing some invisible enemy. And when it is apparent that the person in question is not an enemy, they will create a fictional enemy in their head. Just to facilitate their hero complex. As for who the manufactured enemy in question is? It is one of the four red pill personality types.

    • The Purple Pill

    The purple piller is undecided, and often flip flops between blue pill, and red pill. This is especially true in manosphere groups, where some men are in denial about female nature. As such, they believe in a rare specimen called a NAWALT (Not All Women Are Like That). They often run back to red pill safe spaces, after they get their hearts broken, yet again. And are thus caught in an endless cycle of cause and effect. When will they ever learn?

    • The Black Pill

    And then, there is the black pill. The one who sees everything for what it truly is. The nihilistic one who has checked out of society. The strong, silent type who can live alone in a cabin in the woods, along with his two dogs, and be perfectly happy. He is fully aware of who he is, and does not need any form of validation from society. He is shrewd and calculating, and knows how to play the game.

    While everybody and their brother are busy tripping over their own shoelace to seek validation from others, and trying to become more alpha. The black piller lives by his own set of rules, and dwells in the shadows of the night. A true sigma male, if ever there was one. Once you go black, you can never go back.

    Well that is because you just don’t want to go back. Chances are, the black piller realized early in life that he was the designated scapegoat of society. The one who was bred to carry the burden of everyone’s shame and guilt. So that it is easier for them to live, laugh and enjoy life without a single care in the world.

    Then once he becomes a man, he realizes that it is not just his family. Everyone in society sees him as some kind of scapegoat. From friends, to relatives, to employers, right on down to even his girlfriend. He is very serious about breaking free from societal labels and expectations. Because there is just no way he signed up for any of this.

    Lucky for him, he was also born a sigma male, and that will be his saving grace. So he embraces the black pill, and all of what it has to offer. The truth hurts, but it will also set you free. For the sigma male, the black pill is the ultimate path towards redemption.

  • Exploring the Metrosexual Male

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    May 26, 2024

    The word “male” is even redundant to be honest.

    It is the expectation of society that most western, straight men are macho. It is even worse if you are black, or if you otherwise come from a more “urban” setting. Because then, if you are neither a thug, nor an athlete/rapper, you are considered weird. Some may even go so far as to assume that you are gay. It doesn’t help that you keep your room neat, and that you probably like having nice things.

    As a result of all of the above, what you commonly find is that people who generally fit that profile are often ostracized by the community of their origin. They have even gone so far as to coin a term to refer to you. They call you, the Metrosexual. But what exactly is a metrosexual? Are they using this term out of context?

    A metrosexual, so far as they have described him, is a heterosexual male who enjoys luxuries. He tends to enjoy them noticeably more than that of the average straight man. He is often a well to do male bachelor, who lives rather lavishly in a metropolitan setting, hence the label in question.

    He would much rather entertain the company of beautiful women on any given evening, than to be hanging out with his buddies, watching sports. He is always neat and orderly, with keen attention to detail. A stark contrast to the stereotype of the sloppy, buffoonish straight man. His tastes are opulent, his speech is eloquent, and the way he expresses it is sure not to go unnoticed.

    It seems at first, that the feedback he is receiving from the general public is one of admiration. But it is usually not too long after, that admiration turns to criticism. The people with whom he interacts are often dumbfounded in deciding what to make of him. So they just assume that he is gay. Or that somehow there is just something inherently wrong with him.

    What society may consider a calm and mild-mannered character, may actually be their misunderstanding of the suave and sophisticated mannerisms that the metrosexual in question likes to exude. It’s just that he is usually very selective as to when he chooses to show it. And most importantly, with whom.

    They already have a stereotype in their heads as to how a straight man ought to be. So when they do realize that he is undoubtedly straight, they cannot fully accept this fact. As such, they created the label of a metrosexual, and slapped it on him hoping it would stick. Everyone in society bought it, and went back to living a life of convenience without having to think too much. And the so-called metrosexual in question never had a chance.

    As someone who easily fits the profile of a metrosexual, I am very much offended and disgusted by that label. Whenever they use that term, they are basically suggesting that there is no way one can be fully straight, while being so disciplined and orderly. So then they label you a metrosexual, thinking that it will somehow take something away from you being a heterosexual.

    They don’t really care whether or not you are actually straight. They just want to make sure that you are left feeling misunderstood. Because you failed to meet their expectations of how a straight man should be. The only proof they could possibly have of you being gay, is if they caught you in bed with another man. The rest is nothing more than stereotypes. When in fact, who you really are, is a hedonist.

    Everything that they have used to describe the so-called metrosexual, also describes a hedonist. A hedonist is someone who has fine taste for all things luxurious and pleasurable. Sex is but one form of hedonism, and the hedonist refuses to allow his hedonism to be reduced to only his sexuality.

    Most of his hedonistic indulgences are platonically rooted. Now don’t get me wrong, sex is of the utmost importance to a hedonist. But, he also enjoys traveling, dining, art, wine tasting, long walks on the beach, cozy evenings by the fireplace, etc.

    So for society to label someone as a metrosexual, is to reduce his entire being, and all of his life experiences down to merely his sexuality. If a metro-sexual, why not a metro-social? Why not a metro-socialite? But then again, why metro anything? Sexual or otherwise! Why not just call me a hedonist?

    You see, social labels are created by narcissistic control freaks, who feel it is their place to define you. First, they approach you under the guise of friendship. And it is usually not long after, that you begin to notice that not only are they not interested in any kind of genuine friendship, but that they actually chose to target you for a sado-masochistic relationship. A one-sided exchange where you feel obligated to love the ones you fear. Where they are amused by your humiliation, and how well you can take it.

    They want to reduce you down to nothing more than either your race, gender, or sexual orientation. It is usually something external like that. Their “friends” (henchmen) are only there to help them reinforce the negative labeling and stereotyping of the targeted individual in question. And they had better do it, or else the ring leader will turn on them next.

    They are cowards, because everyone in the gang realizes just how powerless and vulnerable the ring leader actually is. And by all accounts, they should just gang up on the ring leader, until he or she has no choice but to flee. But still, they refuse. Not only that, but they are hypocrites for having a double standard when it comes to choosing which one of the hedonists they are going to target.

    They likely envy hedonists all across the board, but only seem to have enough courage for a hedonist from their side of the tracks. Someone who feels safe and familiar to them. Do you have any idea how much courage it takes to be your true, authentic self in a world full of fakes? But I guess that is what makes them all so despicable.

    Sado-masochism is like captivity for a hedonist. And it is more likely to happen early in life when we are still inexperienced as to who we are, and how much power we actually have over our own lives. If only we knew exactly who we are, we would know that hedonists rule with love. A love for ourselves, a love for the sweet delicacies of life, and a love for those who love us too.

    A sado-masochistic exchange is actually the very opposite of hedonism. It is vile, evil and disgusting. The mere thought that someone who claims that they love you, would actually allow themselves to take you for granted, is reprehensible. No hedonist who actually knows what it means to be a hedonist, would ever allow anyone to treat them that way.

    That is how most people in society are. Females are skeptical of you, and would rather date the thug, or the buffoon over you. Deep down inside, they know the truth. They just don’t want to admit it. Not even to themselves. Either way, it’s their loss. It is truly a pity they won’t get to experience that the hedonistic male is actually the better catch. After all, we do make better lovers.

    We are charming, romantic, and sophisticated. We have exquisite taste for the finer things in life, and will literally spoil the dress off any woman. We are perfect for women who are actually healthy. Our enemies know it, otherwise they would not be working night and day to try and stop us from doing what we want.

    Hedonistic men have an extra responsibility to thoroughly scrutinize the kind of women we allow into our lives. Ghetto girls aren’t meant for us. Regular girls aren’t good for us. We should settle for nothing less than the absolute best. Our hedonistic equals as it were.

    It would also help if you were to change social class. No one in your social circles would have a problem with your hedonism if they are also of a higher caliber. Believe me, it is the only way. Otherwise, prepare to live a reclusive life, long term. But whatever you do, do not allow just about any random person to enter your spiritual aura. They are not worth it.

  • Employees have savings, investors have surplus

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    May 19, 2024

    Have you ever seen an item for sale that you want to purchase? Say for example, a new car? You want it so bad, yet you don’t have the money to pay it off in full, at closing. This is always a very disappointing moment, because of the simple fact that you either cannot have what you want, or you have to wait for it.

    So, you decide to save for it. As soon as you are about to meet your savings goal, an emergency comes up. Usually a medical emergency, or emergency car repairs. At this point, the new car you wanted is no longer a novelty item, and you don’t even want it anymore. This is always frustrating.

    If you want a new car, you have to save for it. If your boss wants a new car, he puts you to work twice as hard. Plus you have to go into the office for half a day, every other Saturday. All while he takes his family out to the ball game you were meaning to see. Some guys just have all the luck. Right?

    WRONG! We are all capable of achieving what we want. The difference lies in our mindset. Do you think your boss is more qualified for his job than you are? He is probably a dumbass who got the hookup from some of his drinking buddies. Either that, or he is a narcissist who kicked innocent people off the corporate ladder on his way up. If she is a woman, she probably fits the trope of a dumb blonde who slept her way up the corporate ladder, and doesn’t have a clue about what she is doing.

    Whatever the case may be, you are probably way more qualified than they are. Yet you are stuck bringing them coffee. You should be working for yourself as an entrepreneur. There are countless opportunities that are available on the internet. But you have to go in there with a clear exit strategy already in place.

    For example, you might consider that you will only work for 2 years, in order to save enough start-up capital. So that for the remainder of your days, you will never feel forced into a position where you are stuck serving a blasted bunch of ingrates. You must then commit your free time towards learning everything you can about your niche. No more mindlessly scrolling through social media first thing in the morning before you have even gotten up to go take a leak. No offense, but we have all been guilty of that at some point, or other.

    As you go along, you will soon discover that you are able to practice several niches. The moment you realize that YOU have more control over your earnings as an entrepreneur than you ever did as an employee, you will instantly quit your job. Do you remember when I said that there is always an emergency whenever you are about to reach your saving goals?

    It is only after you quit your job that you will realize that half those emergencies were created by conditions you experienced on the job. Whether they cut your hours, or transferred you over to a different department. Or they changed your shift, or transferred you over to a different job site, all the way across town that would see you going out of your way.

    Spending more on gas to cover the unnecessary extra miles. Whatever it is, it’s always something, and all those conditions accumulate overtime. If your boss perceives you as a threat, I guarantee you that he is doing it deliberately. And it is only a matter of time before they set you up to be fired.

    As an employee, when you saw something you wanted to purchase, you had to save in order to be able to purchase it. The con is that you have to sacrifice something you enjoy for the greater good of what you want. For example, you may have had fewer happy hour margaritas, so you could save for a new couch. Or a few less pairs of shoes, so you could save for a new car. That is counterproductive for all the reasons I have stated above. Your sacrifice could still pay off. But how likely are you to remain motivated if your goal seems far fetched?

    As an investor, you have already made the sacrifice by risking everything you own, for a dream. All you have to do now is reap what you sow. If you want a car, you can raise the funds for it without sacrificing the things you like. If you explore the features of your banking app, you will discover something they call a “Goal Envelope,” that you can customize to suit a specific goal you have in mind.

    They call it a goal envelope, not a savings envelope. And you can have several of them, different envelopes for different goals. Perhaps they intended for the goal envelope to be funded without compromising the quality of your life, and the things you enjoy. Perhaps it is more efficient to finance your purchase by raising the surplus for it, instead of saving for it. Or god forbid borrowing for it. Especially a big ticket item like a car.

    Employees have savings. And they actually think that their savings make them rich. Just because they are able to make a couple of moves with it. That money is fleeting, and will soon run out unless they invest it in a worthwhile venture.

    Investors have surplus. Or are able to produce surplus without much compromise. With that surplus, they will be able to make real power moves in the world. Moves that employees can only dream of.

    Adieu!

  • Poor people have savings, rich people have investments

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    May 12, 2024

    Poor parents tell their kids to save, and rich parents teach their kids to invest. They actually sit them down, and teach them everything they know about investments. This is actually far more important than the pile of damned rubbish that they teach the poor kids in public schools. Do you wonder why the wealthy always seem to stay ahead in life?

    John D. Rockefeller once famously said, “I want a nation of workers, not a nation of thinkers.” With that said, he sanctioned the writing of a standardized school curriculum for public schools, that promised an education for the children of the working class.

    That system would provide poor children with the chance for a better life than their parents had. But did they receive an education, or did they receive indoctrination? Worse than that, they threatened to incarcerate the parents for child neglect if they did not send their kids to school.

    The indoctrination of working class children was reinforced by the indoctrination of their parents, who themselves were brainwashed. They would often tell them things like; “one foot before the other.” Or they would say; “save and sacrifice for what you want,” or “work hard, slow and steady wins the race.”

    They failed to realize that there are people in the world with machiavellian agendas who will eat you alive with that kind of thinking. And if that wasn’t bad enough, they also used religion as an excuse to call us greedy. Only so they could guilt us out of rising above our conditions.

    It’s as if they had set us up to be an easy target from day one. Why should we work for a blasted bunch of ingrates for most of our youth, only to pay alimony and taxes, then die? Does that sound like it’s fair to you?

    With the advent of the internet, there is hope. We are now able to learn what the wealthy have known for centuries. And practice some of what they do, so that our lives can also be worthwhile. Mark Twain once famously said; “I will not allow my schooling to stand in the way of my education.”

    If your parents did not provide you with the right tools you need in order to get ahead, and the adults in society had failed you. That is indeed very unfortunate, and I empathize with you. But it is now your responsibility as an adult to rectify those mistakes, by unlearning toxic habits, and relearning healthy habits. Not only for yourself, but also for your children. So that you can break the cycle of poverty in your bloodline.

    Poor parents tell their kids to save, rich parents teach their kids to invest. Don’t be a poor parent. Break that cycle, TODAY. The internet is a game changer. And with the advent of AI, it will change the landscape of the workforce, forever.

  • A Case for Space

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    May 5, 2024

    If you like your space, and your privacy much like I do. You generally don’t like when people, especially strangers, take the liberty of inviting themselves into your personal space. It is even worse if they are not smelling too right. But the violation is actually far more egregious than bad breath. If only you knew the power of your aura, you would be very careful who you allow to enter into your personal space, let alone actually touch you. This is a case for space. Personal space, that is.

    Your aura is an energy force field that contains your lifeforce and your essence as a spiritual being, living in the flesh. It transcends your physical vessel, and perhaps even stretches on for at least another six feet away from where you are currently standing. That is why they recommended six feet of social distancing, during the pandemic. It was not a part of some vector control effort, it was all energy manipulation.

    Someone who is vibrating on a lower, or a negative frequency can have a profound effect on your mood for the day. That is because our physical bodies are an antenna that transmits frequencies from the different people with whom we interact. We can pick up on different energies that people carry within their soul, whether or not we are aware of it. Likewise, we can transmit different energies out to other people within our immediate environment.

    Which is why in Jamaica, we have this thing called, “spirit tek.” If one gets a bad feeling about someone they just met, they might say that their spirit doesn’t take that person. “Mi can’t explain it, but mi spirit just no tek him.” It is a mostly archaic reference to having a spirit of discernment.

    This is not something we should ignore, as we must always respect the way we feel about someone, or something. It could definitely save us a lot of trouble, and may even save our lives.

    As a rule, they taught us in school that an arm’s length of distance is sufficient. This idea does not work because we are all made in different sizes. The average adult in the western world has an arm length of about two feet from wrist to shoulder. In reality, three feet of personal space is tolerable depending on the circumstances, say public transportation for example. But ideally, five feet is sufficient. The question is, why do people feel the need to enter your personal space when talking to you?

    There are some who are tone deaf, and as such, may feel that you will have difficulty in hearing them. Likewise, they may feel as though they won’t be able to hear you clearly, unless they get really close. This idea is plausible, because there really are some weirdos who deliberately turn down the volume. Just so that the person they are talking to would feel obligated to stick their neck out to hear what they have to say. Whenever this happens, it is a trick, and the thing to do is to disengage from the person doing the talking.

    As plausible as the tone deaf theory may be, majority of the time, people really only enter your personal space because they are narcissists who feel entitled to violate your boundaries. That’s all there is to it. That is the time to put on your war paint. I know they taught us to undermine the importance of our personal boundaries. But believe me, it is worth fighting for. Our boundaries are literally an extension of our spiritual lifeforce beyond the flesh. And similar to word curses, physical contact can also manipulate your energy through your mood.

    Apart from that, it is really just about having good manners in general. It shows the other person that you care about them enough to respect their boundaries. It also shows that you respect their perception of reality enough, that you don’t want them to get the impression that you are trying to commandeer their life. As uninvited close contact is always perceived as a sign of hostility. This is especially true if they don’t really know you like that.

    Personally, in order for you to legally enter my aura, I must first invite you. And in order for me to invite you, my spirit of discernment must first positively receive your aura. The same is true whether you are a friend, a lover, or business associate. If you are not sure how I feel, then verbally ask me for permission to enter my aura.

    Or you can start with the gesture of a handshake, and see if I accept. But whatever you do, giving yourself permission to enter my aura is the fastest way towards earning yourself a knuckle sandwich. Especially if you sneak up on me from behind. Planes, trains and elevators are rare exceptions. Adeu!

  • Scorn of a woman

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Apr 28, 2024

    There is an old saying; “hell hath no fury quite like the scorn of a woman.” It really is true. But the real question is, what have I done to deserve their scorn?

    While attending high school in Jamaica, I never had much luck talking to girls. They would always give me mixed signals, lead me on, and waste my time. Before ultimately rejecting me over something as shallow and minuscule as my weight, in favor of dating thugs and idiots.

    During my early twenties, I lived in a Brooklyn ghetto, where a majority of people had more or less the same type of mentality, but in a different form. Not long after, I decided that her juice is just not worth the squeeze, and resigned myself to a life of bachelorhood.

    Eventually, I moved to Los Angeles, where I enjoyed a few good years of privacy as a reclusive bachelor. About one year, and a half into my new life, I started to notice that women were staring at me in public. They were not smiling, or being respectful in the way they express interest, like they do with other guys. They would just stand there, staring silently. Some of them actually looked crossed.

    At this point, I was just about turning 30, and didn’t want to waste any more time on false leads. I already developed a complex where I feel like they wouldn’t like me. So, I figured I would save us both the trouble by avoiding contact altogether. But to my surprise, that is when they would approach me. Is it my age, or location? Perhaps a little of both?

    Why are they approaching me now, after I have already made up my mind to avoid contact with any of them? They don’t want you when you are chasing them. But as soon as you either settle down and go steady, or call it quits, that is when they suddenly decide that they want to push themselves onto you. What the hell is wrong with people?

    If only their interest in me was genuine, but I am sure it’s not. Many of them only wanted to lead me on, just so they could shoot me down when I chased them. When I didn’t chase them, they found more subtle ways to reject me regardless. For example, they might fix their hair with their left hand after I have already seen them write with their right hand. They only use their left hand whenever I am around, just to make sure I see the ring.

    Another nasty tactic of theirs would be to act like they are searching for something on their phones. Making sure to come across a picture they took with some guy they want me to assume is their boyfriend. And after my final job in New York dealing with bitchy colleagues, I figured that I just about had it up to here with women. I am not through with them, but I am also not going to chase them, you can be certain of that.

    Those mean tactics really used to get to me in my twenties. But now I cannot help but to laugh at how pathetic they all are. Imagine having to resort to using the allure of platonic conversation, to lure someone who is clearly NOT interested, into a rejection trap. That is how deep it runs with them. Are you able to trust a creature such as this? If she can set you up for unwarranted rejection, she can also set you up to get robbed and shot. I already told you that her poison juice is not worth the squeeze.

    I accept that that’s just the way they are. It would be bad enough if she doesn’t like me, I don’t like her either, and we simply leave it at that. It would be bad enough like I said. And at this point, it would actually be kind of cool to be honest. But do you know what really puzzles me? Why do they stare at someone they neither like, nor respect? Here is my theory.

    Women tend to compartmentalize different men in their heads based on several factors, such as money, status, and physical appearance. Whether or not they know they are compartmentalizing you, that is exactly what they are doing. Now, me personally? I am a large black man. Not only that but, let’s just say that there is more of me to love. Oh yea, one more thing. I am not a stupid ghetto thug out here acting a fool. Those factors alone would make me instantly unattractive to ghetto girls, and worthy only of mockery in their eyes.

    If there is one thing you should know about me, it is that I, B. Lorenzo Buckinchere, do not kowtow to societal expectations. I have my own plans for being alive, and I wasn’t born for this shit. That statement alone would be fighting words, sure to make a lot of enemies. My no-nonsense approach to life is not something I need tattooed to my forehead in order to make it known. People are highly perceptive, and they can pick up on these things. It is written all over my body language, whether, or not I was always aware of it. Not that I intend to change it, because I am not hiding from anybody.

    They have created a social pecking order in their heads, and place you where they think you belong based on looks and financial status. Based on how they perceive me, they expected me to be some kind of a desperate incel, out here simping for female validation. But when she sees that I don’t even notice her, she starts to worry. She worries because I have single-handedly destroyed her ego, along with her delusions, and nothing in her world makes sense anymore.

    She also fears that I, who she looks down on so much, could possibly go out and find another woman who is undoubtedly kinder, prettier and classier than she will ever be. Only to come back and rub it in her face. Worse than that, she is afraid that I could actually settle down, and find happiness with someone special. And that our love will serve as a good example for a happy relationship while she is still stuck in the ghetto with the stupid derelict thug.

    Or worse, as a single mother after her boyfriend is either killed, or sent to prison. She is a narcissistic attention whore who is ruled by the spirit of jezebel. The last thing she wants is for the public to bear witness to the fact that someone she considers as being worthy of nothing but ridicule can actually go out and do better than her. Think of all the other men she ridicules who can be helped by the example of my success story.

    Whether or not I actually have those intentions. Those scenarios with me and another woman, is still a vivid reality in her head. They keep her awake at night, and motivate her to try and drop subtle hints of rejection in my subconscious every time she encounters me. She hopes to assassinate my future chances for happiness by shooting my confidence in the present moment.

    She is further motivated when she realizes that she will; “look like a punk out here in these streets,” if she feels like I dissed her, and she didn’t do anything about it. So then she attacks me to defend her street cred, and also her ego so she can sleep well at night.

    All these things, and God alone knows what else could possibly be running through her head, and all I want is to live a happy and hedonistic existence on my own terms. She can dish it, but she cannot take it. And the very thought of getting rejected herself is unacceptable to her. Sometimes, you just have to let evil people stew in their own miserable juices. Which is exactly what will happen when everything they have planned for you, backfires.

    Thankfully, not all women are like that. I have been very fortunate to have met some truly amazing women these past 20 years, and in some of the most unexpected places at that. They too are outcasts, so they know exactly what it feels like to be ostracized by the world. And we have made a pact that in our world, there will be nothing but love. They help make the duty and obligation that I have to reject evil women far more bearable than it otherwise would have been. They are a beacon of light to the world, and to the future, and they have given me hope.

  • The English language is full of word curses like a book of spells

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    Part II

    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Apr 21, 2024

    Continuing where we left off on my blog post from April 7, I am giving you another top 10 list of word curses and phrases within the English language that have a subliminal message you probably got used to hearing overtime.

    Let’s continue without further adieu.

    1. Job

    To have a job is to receive compensation of monetary value for work performed under the instructions of another person. The word “job” is actually a corruption, and a mockery of the name of a biblical character who suffered a series of grave calamities as part of a bet between God and the devil. What they are really saying is that, to have a job is to be as poor as Job for the rest of your life.

    Why, they have even used the word job, as an acronym for “Just Over Broke.” Whether you work for yourself, or for someone else, why not say that you are carrying out your duties vs going to your job? That is what the rich and the wealthy say. Or they might say that they are going into town to run some errands, but they will never say that they are going to do a job. So if you want a shot at being wealthy yourself, you have got to start talking like them. It all starts in the mind first.

    2. Spelling

    To spell is to combine a number of different letters together to form a word. But to cast a spell is to use witchcraft to hijack another person’s free will.

    For example, a man who is caught in the middle of a love triangle between two women may become the victim of a spell, when one of the women decide to use witchcraft to override his free will, so as to separate the man from his wife.

    Some may argue that she used her needle eye to wreck their happy home. But you are just further proving my point. In order to cast a spell, you need a spell book, and books are full of spelling. Almost as if to say that to cast a spell is to spell out the story of someone else’s life, on your terms.

    3. Los Angeles

    Los Angeles is an American city in the state of California. It is a major metropolitan area that serves as the flagship city for Southern California. It is the most populous city in the United States next to New York City. Certainly the most populous city west of the Mississippi. On the surface, it seems like everyone in LA is happy, successful and going somewhere in life. This is especially true if you are from out of town, you poor schmuck.

    Once you are on the inside long enough, you begin to notice that most people are actually really jealous and cutthroat. My personal nickname for Los Angeles is Los An-Jealous, because there is plenty of jealousy in Los An-Jealous. That was actually the first thing I heard in the name at age 8, before I learned the proper spelling. That was a red flag, and one that I quickly overlooked, until I actually moved there some 20 years later.

    4. Fired

    Fire is an element of nature that can either warm your home, or burn it down. But to be fired from your job is to be permanently dismissed from the company of your employment. On the surface, they both seem unrelated, but what does one have to do with the other? To fire you is to “burn” all of your future paychecks.

    They are basically burning down your house by burning up your money. Keep in mind that a house is just a building. But your home is the furniture, and all the keepsake items that help to express your sense of identity. Do you remember when I said that to have a job is to be as poor as Job for the rest of your life? Employees get fired, but investors go bankrupt.

    5. Terminate

    Using the word fire to express one’s permanent dismissal from employment is a bit archaic. Nowadays, they are saying terminate more often. Although both are being used interchangeably. But to terminate someone is literally to kill them. Kind of like having a terminal illness. This is much worse than when they used to say, “you’re fired,” as it is something they take very literally.

    Some Machiavellian bosses will even go as far as to blacklist you from any prospect of future employment. Either that, or they will fire you behind your back to delay you filing for unemployment coverage. In this case, they intend to literally terminate you off the face of the earth, by starving you out of options, and resources, until you die. It is almost like they see your life as a game, one that they are playing to win. Whenever their ego is certain that they cannot win is usually when they try to terminate you.

    6. Pharmacy

    A pharmacy is a store where you go to get medicine. They used to call it a drug store. But now, drugs have come to refer to illegal substances. So they call it a pharmacy instead. But why does the word “pharmacy” sound as if they are actually trying to say Farm-acy?

    It’s like farm, but spelt with Ph. Because a real farm produces only organic food, but everything the pharmacy sells is synthetic. Why not visit God’s Farm-acy instead? You know, like fresh air, sunshine, crystal-clear lakes, fresh fruits, a home-cooked meal made with love, and panoramic views as far as the eye can see. It will make you feel a whole lot better.

    7. Forgive

    This is a big one for a lot of people. Many people struggle with forgiveness because they think it means, not only should you allow your enemies to elude the consequences of their transgressions. But also, that you should allow them to regain access to your life, so they can wreak more havoc than they already have. That is perfectly understandable.

    But when you break down the word forgive, you will quickly realize that many people use it out of context. In order to scam you into giving them another chance they do not deserve. When in all actuality, to “Fore Give” (forgive) is to fore give them over to their reprobate desires that will surely lead them down a path of self-destruction.

    Fore means “in advance,” or “ahead of,” and give means to deliver. If you forgive them, you “Give” them undeserved access to your life and your dreams. And if you forget, they “Get” more of your energy than they already have. Either way, you keep giving, and they keep getting, which is so fake, and one-sided.

    But with you out of the picture, those who were deceived will start to notice that the “victim” has always been the problem, and promptly cut them off as well. They say that misery loves company. But soon they will be left with all of the misery, and none of the company, and it will drive them out of their minds. The BEST revenge is living YOUR best life without them.

    8. Democracy

    Democracy is a political process of checks and balances that serves to limit the power of any one person over another. They tell us that democracy means that we are all “free.” But what they didn’t tell us, is that de-mock-rasee is nothing more than a mockery of our freedom and civil liberties.

    This is because the only rule of a democracy is “majority rules.” All that simply means is that, similar to an HOA, your neighbors all collectively have more power to decide what you get to store in your backyard than you do. But they are not the ones paying your mortgage, and property taxes.

    Speaking of property taxes. Why would they have the power to evict you off a plot of land if the mortgage is already fully paid off? Wouldn’t it be better to pay a one-time only purchase tax on the front end? This is why Millennials and Gen-Z would rather rent an apartment in the city, than invest in land that could last for future generations.

    Especially since they have already made up their minds to live as lifelong bachelors, because marriage and family values get sheg. Only fast money and fast sex matters in this world. Is this what the founding fathers of the United States had envisioned on July 4, 1776? How is anyone free in any of this?

    9. Freedom

    Speaking of freedom, the same is absolutely true for freedom as it is for democracy. But there is dumb in Free-dumb, because one would have to be real dumb to think they have Free-dumb. Not to be pessimistic, but if you were born into a toxic family, you move to a different state. If you have toxic friends, you cut them off. If you have a toxic girlfriend, you break up with her. If you find yourself working a toxic job, you find another job. If you keep running into toxic people, and you keep meeting them on one job, or another, it might just be time for you to try your hand at entrepreneurship.

    On and on it goes. But with each process of elimination, you find that there is just one more thing you might have overlooked. Eventually, you will cut off everybody else, and only the toxic state will remain. You still have to pay taxes, or else get evicted from a house that is paid for in full. They tell you that it is illegal to catch rain water on your own property. Or that you are not allowed to plant potatoes in your own backyard.

    Or that you have to pay thousands for a construction permit to build a house on your own land. If your die-hard, lib-tard neighbor catches you breaking any of their weird little rules, he will report you to the city. And you best believe he is watching you, waiting to catch you “slipping up” at the right moment. Yet, every time he sees you, he is waving hello with the biggest, most neighborly Colgate smile you can imagine. Again, not to be pessimistic, but how free are you, really?

    10. The Truth will set you Free

    Whenever you got caught with your hand in the cookie jar as a kid, they would always say, “tell the truth, the truth will set you free.” With that said, you probably thought that it meant you would not be punished for trying to steal a cookie from the jar if you told the truth. Or that your punishment would be more severe if you lied about it.

    This would continue into adulthood, if you find yourself in a situation where you have to be accountable to someone else, such as on a job, or in a marriage. You would always admit to guilt, much to your own detriment. That is because you stayed true to what you were taught as a child. But what they did not tell you is that that phrase has a double meaning. There is some truth that honesty may lessen the consequences for your actions. But it still would not entirely set you free. Especially when you consider that there are people who lie all the time, and elude accountability.

    It is actually the truth you hear, and not the truth you tell that will set you free. With knowledge of toxic individuals and situations, and the wisdom in how to effectively deal with them, you will be set free to be happy and carefree for the rest of your life. The truth you tell will set others free. And the truth you hear will set yourself free.

    11. Finance

    (bonus! Just for laughs)

    Perkins: Caller, you’re live on air.

    Caller: Hello, Mr. Perkins! First time calling your programme, sir.

    Perkins: Welcome to the programme, glad to have you on.

    Caller: Thank you, the honor is all mine. I am calling in regards to the two previous callers who were wasting time chatting damn rubbish pon di programme. And also as it relates to a comment that the Minister of Finance had made yesterday in Parliament.

    Perkins: The Minister of Finance? Well don’t you mean the Minister of fine ants?

    Caller: Fine ants???

    Perkins: *laughs out loud over the mic in studio* “Hold on just a moment for me.”

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  • The only way to secure genuine social connections

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Apr 14, 2024

    About 5 years ago, I came across a facebook meme one Sunday evening in particular, that said something to the effect of, “You gotta fuck wit’ da ppl dat fuck wich’u, not da ppl u be fuckin’ wit’.” First of all, if your social circles resonate with memes that are written like that, then you don’t need me to tell you what corner of facebook you are in.

    If you don’t like where you are, then you also don’t need me to tell you what you need to do about it. Second of all, as plausible as it may sound, if you personally resonate with the underlying message, then you may need to check your mindset.

    Here is why that concept does not work. About 3 years before that, I read another meme in which the man asked the woman, “Do you like staying stuck in your own little world?” To which the woman whispered, “Do you like feeling powerless in other people’s worlds?” I had no choice but to support the woman. Me! A red-blooded patriarchal chauvinist to the death of me. Imagine that!

    You see, when other people choose you for their “friendships,” they are usually choosing you for their agendas. Chances are, they already formed a clique behind your back, and chose to target you as a group for a reason you will not be aware of until it may be too late. It is most likely that they chose you for the purpose of being their friend, but they are not yours. They are only with you, but not for you. It is not going to be obvious until the day you actually need their help. Of course there are some exceptions, but they are too few and far in between. Social acceptance is a scam. Do not join established groups.

    When you choose your friends, it is less likely that they would choose you for an agenda. That is because you are the one in charge, and you have the power to kick anyone out who doesn’t belong there. You also have first dibs on prospective friends before any cliques are formed. And you have the flexibility to vet everyone who enters your sphere of influence.

    Here now is your opportunity to form your own power circles with a handful of likeminded people who want the same things you want. Your group can be as large, or as small as you want. I recommend a small group of no more than 9, plus yourself make 10. A group of 3 is even better, the smaller the better.

    My personal preference is to have your top 3 as your inner circles (friends), and 7 more as your outer circles (acquaintances). Once your power circle is formed, everyone in the group understands that group membership is closed to the public. If you make an excellent selection of group members right from the jump, there won’t be any need for turnovers. This requires superhuman levels of patience, plus being an excellent judge of character, as good people are hard to come by.

    Be honest with your intentions, and demand the same from others, but do not expect it. If you even remotely suspect they may have any ulterior motives, kick them out of the group without warning. Make an example out of them. If you made a mistake, it’s your loss. Be ok with that.

    There is nothing they can offer you to make you compromise on your boundaries. You are NOT to be trifled with. Nerdy white boys have provided very good examples of how to choose your friends wisely. They might be puny in stature, but their strength is in how they choose to vet their prospective acquaintances. Thank them for their wisdom, and take a page out their book.

    Group members should be allowed to have other friends outside of your power group, if that is what they want. You have no control over who they choose to talk to outside of the group, nor should you care. But those friends should respect that membership to your group is exclusive to your top 10. And group members should respect the privacy of the group. There should be no sharing of notes between groups.

    Your platonic friends should ideally be the same gender as yourself. For me, my power circles are ideally a boys only club. Kind of like a college fraternity. If a woman is not in my bed, or serving me, my coffee (I don’t like coffee), then I have no damn use for her. I do not want to deal with the distraction of unwanted sexual tension from members of the opposite gender when the only focus in that moment should be about business and power. There is a time and place for everything under the sun.

    Many Jamaicans believe that some of the all-boys high schools on the island, such as KC and Calabar, were founded by homosexual priests in the Anglican church. But I can clearly see why that concept was created in the first place.

    Especially for boys at that age, with so many raging hormones being distracted from their studies by the charms of the opposite gender. There are also boarding schools in the US where the genders do not mix.

    Co-eds are mostly public schools. And yet, you wonder why teenage pregnancies are more prominent in neighborhoods that are more socio-economically challenged, than it is in wealthier neighborhoods.

    The homosexual theory has been debunked, and I think that some of the people who were saying that are a bit latent themselves, if you know what I mean. Because that is all they ever seem to talk about. Once again, there is a time and place for everything under the sun.

    Having true friends is an awesome thing to experience. But not everyone cares about having friends. Whether, or not you care about having friends, you still need allies nonetheless. Because we know that the wars will come, and God help any man who is caught without an army in times of war.

    Whether you choose your friendships, or let your “friends” choose you, there must be mutual consent regardless. Same as if it were any other type of relationship. Ultimately, you are your first friend, and your best friend. Choose yourself first.

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  • The English language is full of word curses like a book of spells

    Ready.

    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Apr 7, 2024

    Hence why they call it spelling…..

    Verbal communication is very important. We need it to get by on a daily basis. It expresses intentions, prevents accidents, and gives us a clear sense of direction in our daily walk. Basic communication involves words that we often take for granted. It includes words that are often overlooked. Words that may be more sinister in nature, than what it sounds like on the surface.

    If you ever wondered why your mood suddenly changes for the worse, after you woke up earlier that morning with a general feeling of happiness. Perhaps you should consider the possibility that someone used a word curse to scramble your brain. As well as to invade your energy field, whether, or not they were aware of what they were doing. Our rastafari brothers were among the first to notice that the English language is full of word curses.

    This is due to the fact that a lot of their focus is on energy and vibrations. They are more attuned to how someone, or something makes them feel, than those who are distracted by more worldly pursuits. They are often considered crazy by some people outside of their faith, for a number of reasons. But perhaps they were on to something. In this blog post, I will be providing a list of 10 such words and phases, the subliminal message behind them, and safe alternatives that are more positive and uplifting for the soul.

    1. Hello

    Hello sounds innocent enough as a greeting, but listen more carefully. There is Hell in Hell-o. Basically, it sounds like you are telling someone to go to hell. Yet they taught us to say hello as a polite gesture. How twisted! Why not say Hi instead of hello? Hi sounds closer to high, so then by saying hi, they are lifting you higher, and loving you higher. That is why whenever they are saying hi, they always wave up versus waving down.

    2. Morning

    Morning is the beginning of a new day. They say that it lasts 12 hours from 12:00 am – 11:59 am. But it actually lasts from 6:00 am to 9:00 am, seeing as how it is the beginning of the day, and not the middle of night. It is very common to tell someone “Good Morning” as a greeting.

    But subliminally, morning sounds like mourning, which is like mourning the dead. Why are you mourning so early in the morning? The beginning of each day should be a time of great optimism for the day ahead. So then, there should not be anything in your peripherals that remind you of mourning. “Weeping endures for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” So then why are you mourning?

    The Spanish word for morning is “mañana,” which literally translates to “early.” At no point is there any reference to mourning. There are some who say “grand rising” as their early greeting. But might I recommend that morning be called sunrise? In which case, the greeting would then be, “happy sunrise.”

    3. Appreciate

    The word “Appreciate” has a positive connotation attached to it. It shows gratitude for receiving something nice, or helpful. Kind of like saying thank you. But did you know that there is hate in “appreci-hate?” Why would you mention a word (especially in the context of gratitude), that suggests that you hate someone who does something nice for you? Or perhaps, even the nice act in question. Isn’t that ass backwards? For that reason, rasta always say appreci-love.

    4. Dedicate

    The same is true for the word “dedicate.” It is a word that is often used to express obligation to something, or someone. But there is “dead” in “dead-icate.” What does a priest say at a funeral?

    Doesn’t he literally say, “by the powers invested in me, by the arch-diocese of Dublin, I hereby ‘dead-icate’ the mortal remains of Mr. so and so, back to the soil, ashes to ashes, dust to dust,” while reading the burial rites?

    So then, is it any wonder that rasta always chooses to say “live-icate” instead? Why are they using any word that has “dead” in it, to express obligation? Is it that your obligation to someone else will undoubtedly result in the death of your own free will?

    5. Diet

    Diet is a word pertaining to the type of food that is believed to optimize one’s health. Diet is tied to life. So then imagine the sheer irony when I realized that there is die in die-et. Why do they want to feed us something that will make us die, like a die-et?

    For that reason, rasta always say “livity.” Because the opposite of die is live. Isn’t livity a more fitting word to describe a practice that will make you live? Your livity can be any meal that you consider healthy, including some meat dishes. But the traditional rasta dish is called Ital Stew. It is beans and yams stewed in coconut milk. It is called Ital Stew because ital is vital.

    6. God

    When you think about divine omnipotence, you think about God. But God spelt backwards, is dog. In all of the languages that are rooted in Latin, the word for God starts with a D. Because they have the same root as the English word, deity. Only in English is the word for God, the backwards spelling of dog. Why are they trying to compare the most powerful being in the universe to a dog? Why not refer to him as a deity? Or better yet, why not call him by his name? Which is Elohim! Because, after all, God is just a title.

    7. Pray

    To pray is to talk to God. But have you ever thought it strange, that pray sounds similar to prey? To pray is to talk to God, but to prey is to spy and to hunt one’s intended target like an apex predator. Why not commune with God instead of praying to him? The dark side communes with the dead to get their fortunes told. So why not commune with God?

    8. Dynasty

    A dynasty is a vast empire. But has it ever occurred to you that dynasty sounds like they are trying to say die-nasty? Why not say kingdom, or empire? Although there is nothing really wrong if you want to die nasty. So long as you die nasty in bed, alongside your lover. Now that’s what I would call a knockout punch. It has been known to happen, people dying while doing the nasties.

    9. Diaspora

    A diaspora is an ethnic settlement away from home. For example, one might say that Miami has the largest Cuban population outside of Cuba. But if you listen to the word carefully, you can hear die-as-poor. It sounds like they are trying to suggest that you will more than likely die poor if you try to gain your wealth in another land.

    The natural citizens of your adopted homeland will always be given priority treatment over immigrants. Which is why many immigrants would rather stay in a melting pot than venture out into the rest of the country. Not only will you die poor away from home, but your birth land will also be poorer due to a brain drain that is caused by mass migration. Do you remember a certain campaign speech from 2015?

    “They are not sending us their best, they are sending us their rapists and drug dealers, and some I assume are good people.” That is not always the case. Sometimes the birth land in question ends up losing their best, and brightest minds due to scholarships and migration opportunities. For the people who are able to hear the subliminal message, they choose to pronounce diaspora, not as die-as-poor-rah, but rather as dee-as-pur-rah.

    10. Understand

    To understand, as we are made to understand it, is not only to be told a concept by someone else, but also for that concept to register. But why should I have to stand under you, in order to under-stand you? Many choose to say over-stand, but why not choose to inner-stand instead? Seeing as how comprehension is an internal process of the heart and mind.

    Part II coming soon…..

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