The Buckinchere Transcendence

Tag: Sexual Repression

  • The cause of binge disorders

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Oct 5, 2025

    Let’s talk about obesity for a sec. No offense, but do you ever wonder why some people are fat? Though there are many nuances involved, I’m pretty sure that in most cases, the people who are overweight are suffering from a binge disorder. But what is a binge disorder?

    Binging is an overindulgence in any hedonistic activity that tethers on the brink of decadence (see: Hedonism vs. Decadence), and could eventually lead to harm. Examples of this could be food, weed, alcohol, sex, porn, television (especially online streaming), etc.

    Indulging is fine so long as you keep it in moderation. But overindulgence is a binge, and excessive amounts of binging now becomes a disorder. Ok, great! Now what causes people to overindulge?

    Perhaps there was a time while growing up when there was never enough to eat. Similar to people who become obsessed with power in adulthood because they never had any autonomy in childhood, and it had put them in harm’s way, so does the person who never had enough to eat start binging the moment they had the extra income to be able to afford more food.

    I once had a classmate who had plenty of kids, more than she can probably afford. Her father died when she was young, and she and her mother hate each other. So now she is resolute in creating the family she never had growing up, where she is surrounded by a bunch of kids who she feels would be there to love her forever.

    But what happens when the kids grow up and want to live lives of their own? She probably never thought about that, but I did, for I am such a child. My guess is that her kids will likely develop a binge disorder that’s shrouded in some kind of solitude and autonomy.

    When I was growing up, our house was the revolving door for all of the neighborhood kids. This is because my brother is an extravert, and likes talking to everybody. Still have no idea how we even ended up being born in the same family, but today, I won’t even say hi to my neighbors.

    Then there is the issue of sexual repression. A man who is going through a dry spell may develop an addiction at the pornographic level due to sexual frustration. Then when he finally graduates to the real deal, that porn addiction might turn into a sex addiction.

    He may become addicted to the act itself. But once he realizes that his girlfriend cannot keep up, he may cheat on her with multiple women, some of whom may be escorts. Then he will eventually become addicted to the escorts.

    Choosing to see escorts is one thing, but becoming addicted to them will lead to bankruptcy. Speaking of bankruptcy, a man will likely become a workaholic if there was never enough money going around while he was growing up.

    Perhaps he was surrounded by crabs in a bucket. Then they probably lied that it was all due to a generational curse. Or it could just be that he was geolocked due to his time and place.

    Whatever it is, he will likely become obsessed with overachievement, and workaholism will become his binge of choice. Binging may feel satisfying at first, but as with all things that you choose to abuse, consistent binging always ends in disaster.

    Food binges lead to obesity and hypertension. Porn addiction leads to wasted time, and neglecting your real world relationships and obligations. Sex addiction will eventually lead to bankruptcy. Alcoholism will lead to DUIs. And workaholism will lead to premature ageing.

    A binge disorder can be outgrown with time and understanding. Sadly, there are some who never outgrow their binge. It becomes a permanent aspect of their character.

    The key is in being able to recognize the root cause of your binge disorder. Forgive yourself for the scarcity in your early life that caused the binge, and consider some possible alternatives that could lead to a healthier future.

    One possible alternative is in recognizing that the unconscious urge to hoard is not the answer. You begin to heal by making the concerted effort to learn the discernible difference between quality and quantity, and then choosing quality every time.

    Thanks for reading!

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  • Seeking freedom and hatred for the world’s oldest profession

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Sep 14, 2025

    Prostitution is the world’s oldest profession, and also the most hated. So much so to the extent that it is still illegal in many parts of the world in 2025. Some of the excuses that are often given for criminalizing sex work are as follows:

    1. We are not able to tax and regulate the industry
    2. It is generally a shady industry that attracts drugs, fights, etc.
    3. It breeds exploitation/human trafficking, etc.
    4. Prostitutes tend to spread STDs
    5. We don’t want to encourage promiscuity

    When in reality, they probably don’t want to give men the option to still get laid if he wishes to remain a bachelor. After all, relationships produce families, and the system needs new taxpayers every twenty years or so.

    If they really wanted to eliminate the risk of human trafficking, only pimps would be criminalized, but not the buying and selling of sex. Prostitution, like any other form of exhibitionism, is a form of expression, and criminalizing it is a hypocritical violation of the first amendment of the American constitution that explicitly defends both freedom of assembly and freedom of expression. 

    When done correctly, sex work can be a victimless crime, because both men and women are free to do what they want with their bodies and their money. So why do so many people have such a problem with it? Why don’t we all just leave them alone?

    First of all, why do people turn to sex work? More specifically, why do women become prostitutes and why do men seek their comfort?

    There are several reasons for this, the most common of which is freedom. Women want to use their beauty and sexual prowess to make money without having to be masochistically frightened from sleep by an alarm clock. Then drive through rush hour traffic to go to a job they hate, surrounded by people they hate.

    They have pretty faces and nice bodies and they are smart enough to capitalize off that without shame. Speaking of shame, they also don’t mind sleeping with multiple men at the same time. They have denounced sexual shame and have fully embraced who they are. As such they are smart enough, and honest enough to charge for it instead of giving it away for free.

    Speaking of honesty, they are not out to play games and lead you on. They are very pragmatic about what men want, and are willing to indulge their male clients in a frank and upfront, no BS, exchange. They figured, “I want money. He wants pussy. So we doing this, or not?” If you don’t like headaches, she’s your girl.

    That level of pragmatism is a very masculine mindset to have. Even though she presents with femininity, the way she thinks is masculine. Which means that she is very calculating, but in a good way. But just because her services are transactional by nature doesn’t mean she is not having fun.

    She thoroughly enjoys the company of her male clients. It’s just that she is smart enough to get paid for having a good time. They figured out the secret a long time ago, otherwise it wouldn’t be the world’s oldest profession.

    Then there are the men who seek her comfort, and the question of why. For the man who is married, it is either he feels ignored by his wife at home, or he was in way over his head when he thought he was able to commit to one woman for the rest of his life.

    Men are naturally polygamous (enter ludus and playful detachment) and most women are naturally monogamous (eros). So what that simply means is that while men are looking for sex, women are looking for commitment.

    It is very difficult for a man who has stayed true to his polygamous nature to find a like-minded woman among normies because normies are one dimensional neurotypicals. Any woman who is like-minded would either have to be a swinger/cuckquean or an escort. So it’s either a married man cheats on his wife with an escort, or he respects the nature of neurotypical women and chooses to stay single so he can be married to the only industry that is dedicated to his nature.

    This makes a lot of people angry because they love to control the male phallus. And when they can’t control you, they try to destroy you for it. That is why the world’s oldest profession is still illegal in 2025.

    That is also why most jobs will fire you if they ever were to find out how you really get laid. Or why your wife will divorce you and sue you for alimony. To keep money out of your pocket so you can’t just sleep around as you wish.

    For many men, building a connection with an escort, albeit transactional, is the most honest relationship they will ever have in their entire lives. There are literal billionaires who are able to keep their blinders on by paying them to leave. Then there are the incels who literally don’t have any other means of getting laid.

    This is as good as it will ever get for them, yet even their dicks are being constantly policed by society. If you are an incel, society wants to keep you in poverty indefinitely. The gatekeepers are numerous; from family, to friends, to coworkers, to normie girls. You won’t be able to escape them.

    This is why you should never marry if that is the lifestyle you want to live. If you value your freedom, you should never marry in the first place. The moment you put a ring on it, it’s no longer about you.

    The short of it is that marriage is pushed with no regard to your male nature, while sexual liberty is shamed and sabotaged. People fear what they cannot control. It is the same reason why they hate atheists.

    It is true that sex work is a shady industry. So how will cleaning it up help to change people’s opinion of it when shadiness was never the underlying issue? But don’t they realize that people still do what the fuck they want regardless? They are not stopping anything over there. Tyrants will never learn.

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