The Buckinchere Transcendence

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  • Love Triangles are Narcissistic

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Feb 11, 2024

    Three days from now on February 14 will be The Feast of Lupercalia, otherwise known as Valentine’s Day. And although I do not celebrate pagan holidays in general, I figured that now is as good a time as any to discuss this love related topic. A love triangle is when two people are fighting over the same person. It can be either two men fighting over the same woman, or two women fighting over the same man. It can also be that two men are fighting over the same man, or two women fighting over the same woman. Whatever the case may be, they are hoping to win over the affection of the person being fought over.

    Popularized in the media, love triangles have often been at the center of some very complex soap plots. It can be a lot of fun to watch your favorite characters go through love triangles on television, and there are plenty of people who think that it’s a pretty cute idea to live out their favorite soap fantasies in real life. They think it is cute, until the moment there is bloodshed.

    I have always been perplexed by love triangles. It shows that the people doing the fighting have a very low self-esteem. And it leaves me wondering what in blazes could be so special about that one person in particular that is worth fighting over. Even if the person being fought over is encouraging the “third wheel” to fight to win her affection, it is up to the third wheel in question to brush her aside, and cut them both off should it become necessary. But maybe it’s just me. After all, I am not the jealous type.

    The way I see it, every woman has a needle eye between her legs. So with 8 billion people on earth, and at least half of the 8 billion being women, no woman on earth is worth the life of another man. It would be bad enough, yet understandable if she was the last woman on earth. But with as much as 4 billion women by estimate, you have no excuse as to why you can’t just find another woman.

    I think that love triangles are very narcissistic because the two people fighting each other over someone else only care about what they want. They care more about what they want than they care about the needs of the very person they are actually fighting over. When in reality, the only thing that matters is the decision of the person being fought over. The pursued would ideally choose one of the two people fighting over them.

    But for all they know, the pursued can easily decide to leave town, forever. Either that, or perhaps they are secretly bi-sexual, and may decide to switch their orientation, whether temporarily, or permanently. Or they can even become willfully abstinent, and join a convent. In either case, it will then be painfully obvious that their future plans don’t include you. You really thought that song was about you.

    I can understand if a guy and his friend went out together to a bar one night, and they see a girl they both like. What usually happens in that case is that one guy calls dibs on the blonde, and the other guy chooses the brunette friend of the blonde. Or he goes looking for another blonde if he likes blondes that much.

    It is very unlikely that they would end up in a love triangle, because they do not know any of the girls at the bar well enough to form an emotional attachment with them. When a guy calls dibs on one broad, his friend chooses another broad. If they both call dibs on the same girl at the same time, then they discuss it like gentlemen. Even though they should really allow the girl to choose, the male ego will override that logic.

    That is not how love triangles are typically formed. There is usually an established spouse already in the picture, and a home wrecker who is out to destroy them for their own personal gain. Sometimes, the home wrecker doesn’t even want the person they are fighting over, they just want to compete with the spouse for their own personal amusement, to prove that they are the better pick.

    This is a very prevalent practice within Jamaican kerosene oil culture. “Kerosene Oil” is a term that was popularized by the Politricks Watch YouTube channel, that is used to describe the Jamaican bad girl type. The kerosene oil loves love triangles like a fat kid loves cake. They thrive on drama and attention like a bad heroin habit, and they don’t care who gets hurt in the process. Especially if the wife at home is a “Maybelline” type who the kerosene oil resents for being too posh and proper. A single day without some form of mix-up and blender is flat like a brewer’s droop. Not even rainy days are out of the question.

    If the person they are fighting over is foolish enough to choose the home wrecker over their loving spouse, they deserve everything that is coming their way when the home wrecker eventually turns on them. The home wrecker is only out for kicks. What did you think was going to happen?

    But what if her spouse at home is not so loving, and it is actually the third wheel who wants to swoop in and save her from an abusive relationship? Once again, he is living out some kind of hero complex solely for kicks. If she is being abused, she can go to the police, or divorce him and meet someone new. But her savior doesn’t have to be you necessarily.

    I hate cheating with a passion, but if you want to have multiple sex partners, then the responsible thing to do is to just be honest about your intentions right from the jump, and allow each person to choose whether or not they want to remain involved with you. It will save everyone involved a lot of heartbreak and wasted time.

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