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  • Blog 104

    Blog 104

    Ready.

    Better than Sex??

    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    May 3, 2026

    Ok, great! So now that I have your attention, you’re probably wondering what that could even be. In this article, I’m going to get down to what I’m actually hinting at. And no, it’s not a Harley Davidson.

    Stick around!

    There are some very thirsty people in society. Who are these people, you may ask? Random normies who see you and walk up to you in public to strike up a conversation without knowing you.

    And I mean anybody; dudes, chicks, dogs, cats.

    From your perspective, you are genuinely flattered at all the attention, especially if you’re not used to getting it at first. You likely believe their interest in you to be genuine.

    So you allow the unsolicited social contact to carry-on for a tad bit longer than your comfort zone would allow. To the point where you may feel compelled to say, “Go look a girl nuh, bredrin!”

    Speaking of which, here are some of the nuances about the men who show interest in you. If you are a man, and another man is chasing you, and forcing himself on you, you’re probably thinking that maybe he’s gay. And some of them genuinely are, even if they don’t show it.

    But here’s the kicker. Most of them are straight. Some of them would even go so far as to use their smoking hot girlfriends to publicly flirt with you as bait to get them in the door. And the girlfriend in question is totally on board with his idea, except that she probably has her own motives, and it’s not what you think.

    But this is where you get a little thrown off. Because most people are driven by lust. So if a straight man is using his girlfriend to bait another straight man, then what could possibly be better than sex?

    Your aura!

    Now this is where we start going down the rabbit hole into “chosen” territory.

    I do believe that some people are indigo children, meaning that they were born with certain innate talents that normies do not possess. But I don’t believe that these indigo children are actually chosen.

    Chosen by what?!

    Back to my point! People may be primarily driven by lust, but greed is a very second motivator, and when people meet an indigo child, they believe they have struck solid gold. And they are right.

    UniQue qualities of indigo children include, but are not limited to;

    Calmness:

    In a mad, chaotic world, calm is the light that shines too bright. They will flock to you like moths to a flame. Not only that, but they will crave your light while resenting you for having it at the same time.

    Good Listener:

    If people often come to you for advice, even people who don’t know you, then they likely see you as a free shrink they can use. They will blow up your phone at two o’ clock in the morning to burden you with their problems, then resent you for asserting a boundary.

    Visionary:

    This is probably the most dangerous one on my list. Specifically because you can never be too careful. But if you are a visionary, then people always come to you for advice. Specifically to pick your brain for ideas they intend to steal for themselves and take all the credit. These are the people who will talk you out of your brilliant plans, only for them to steal it and declare to the public that it was their idea to begin with. If you are a visionary who doesn’t want to be stopped, then prepare to live the life of a recluse. I mean that with all sincerity, and every bit of love.

    P.S. Buy a travel-sized padlock for your laptop bag.

    Creativity:

    Normies love to consume art, but don’t actually like creative people. Far worse than that, they actually hate them. Much like with peace, they will also flock to your creative light like moths to a flame. But once they realize that you are the one with the secret sauce that they cannot accurately replicate, envy rears its ugly head, then eventually turns to resentment. For that reason, many creatives are loved by the world, yet they often lead lonely personal lives. That is, if they have yet to find a fellow creative to share their lives with. True creativity comes with a curse that normies are not willing to accept, yet they envy creatives for doing that which they are not willing to do.

    Enigma:

    Speaking of having a secret sauce, this is the part that is actually better than sex. Picture this! You walk into a room. Not loud. Not seeking validation. But as a phantom. You go over to your table, pull out a chair, and order a drink.

    Everybody is wondering who you are. Some are rubber-necking your table. Others are not so obvious. You are whom they call an enigma. A mystery man. The most interesting man in the room. Yet your entrance was merely the whisper of a phantom.

    If you possess the aura of being the enigmatic presence of every room you walk into, then everybody wants to be around you. Men, women, dogs, cats.

    You get the idea!

    This is a phenomenon that comes naturally. That kind of aura cannot be faked, and I’d rather doubt you’d be able to lose it if you wanted to.

    That last one is where greed and entitlement always comes into play. Human nature is innately selfish, and most people only show interest in you for all the wrong reasons.

    I know it may sound cliche for me to say, but they literally see your gifts as a resource to use for their own benefit. The resource in question could be anything; from money to favors, etc. However, in this case, the highly addictive resource you possess that is better than sex, is attention.

    Your attention.

    The attention of the enigma in the room.

    And specifically because human nature is so inherently selfish and narcissistic, most people will seek to control your attention to keep it on themselves at all times.

    The general mindset is, “if you’re so great and I’m the one who either controls you, or breaks you, then what does that make me?”

    As such, they become sadistic in an attempt to keep you under their control, so they can be the ones to control who gets to access your precious attention. If you make it obvious that you don’t want to be controlled, then that is when they become hell bent on breaking you to make an example out of you.

    The over-familiarity of random strangers in public, coupled with the extent to which said strangers fight to get, even you, out the way of your own attention is a very telling sign of how powerful your aura truly is. And the irony of that statement is that you may not have been aware of it for a long time.

    They are not going to tell you why they are being so overly possessive with you. You only know that that level of aggression and over-familiarity coming from a perfect stranger is not normal.

    This is when you must assert stringent boundaries that are impermeable to human deception if you are to be successful in your war effort.

    No one’s gonna draw you a map. Not even me. But in case no one ever told you this, remember you heard it here first.

    Your attention is power!

    Your attention is currency!

    Your enigma is currency!

    Don’t give it away so cheaply.

    Make people earn their place in your space.

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  • What kind of people are the narcissist’s flying monkeys?

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Nov 9, 2025

    One of the most sadistic things you can experience is getting into an argument with a narcissist and everybody takes their side. This tends to happen more often than not, and it is particularly frustrating because it makes you feel like you cannot win when dealing with those kinds of people.

    Furthermore, it makes the narcissist seem superior to you, and far more popular than you. And with that popularity, they receive the favor of the majority. But why do you think that is? In this article, I will be covering the flying monkey and why they support the narcissist so blindly.

    First of all, what is a flying monkey? The term “flying monkey” is a reference to the wicked witch of the west from “The Wizard of Oz” who sent out magical monkeys with wings to do her bidding.

    The term is now used within communities that support survivors of narcissistic abuse to describe the henchmen of the narcissist who are all too willing to do the narcissist’s bidding.

    Primarily as it relates to stalking, hoovering, enabling, gaslighting and harassment of the former target who has escaped the narcissist’s control. But what kind of person would go out of their way to harass an innocent person who doesn’t want to be bothered? Don’t they have kids, bills and a job to go to?

    The answer is that they are weak.

    These are weak-willed, mediocre people who are not that smart, not fully right upstairs, satisfied with their lot in life, and are thus easier to control. Those reasons alone are exactly why they are normies.

    The first red flag that you are dealing with a normie is that they are loud, fake and satisfied with mediocrity. They also want everybody to be the same. Let’s break it down on an existential level.

    First of all, there are many people who were not born because they were loved, planned for, or cared for. They were born out of the simple fact that two jackasses decided to fuck without a condom.

    Their parents were stupid, dishonest, and racist. And now they are just as stupid, dishonest, and racist as their parents. Soon they will have children of their own who will more or less turn out the same way, and the vicious cycle continues.

    How could you expect those kinds of people to love anyone if their parents never loved them? And how could their parents love them if they never even loved each other, let alone themselves?

    Yet from a very early age, the normie knew that it was always hungry, horny and needed money. It also knew that it wasn’t smart enough to sustain life on its own. So what does it do?

    It joins other normies at work, or in friend groups, and they all fall in line with a certain pecking order that only they can understand. They appoint a “leader” whose leadership qualities are only apparent from their perspectives, be it a boss, or a popular friend in the group. And that “leader” serves its role while they serve their leader.

    They idealize that leader and serve him or her blindly. If that leader wants them to murder an innocent, they will kill that person without question. This is where the danger lies because this is how cults are usually formed.

    With that said, not all normies are evil. Most normies are just unawakened, and trying to go about their regular lives. But there is a lot of evil mixed in among the normies and the lines easily become blurred because it’s hard to tell who’s who.

    This is where evil comes into play. True evil is silent. It watches. It waits. It befriends. Then it strikes when you least expect it, and in ways you would never consider. It strikes by appearing as normal as any normie, and then taking advantage of the confusion.

    Then before you know it, the poor, unsuspecting normies are now part of a friendship gang, or a corporate cult, and the expectation of loyalty makes it hard for them to back out. So they become enablers and go along with evil agendas just for the sake of getting along with everybody.

    This is particularly dangerous because these normies are the same kind of people who drank the Kool-aid in the jungles of Jonestown, Guyana in 1978, and history is doomed to repeat itself. Consider yourselves warned!

    All normie cults have two scapegoats. One is internal, the other is external. The internal scapegoat is that one friend in the group who everybody low key roasts. And the external one?

    He is just the quiet guy who goes to work, minds his business, does his job and goes home without incident, and generally wants nothing to do with them. And everybody HATES him. Why do they hate him?

    Because they feel like he is disrespecting their pecking order by not falling in line and worshipping them. Because he has “The Light” and doesn’t want to be exploited for it.

    Because they cannot wrap their heads around the notion that he truly doesn’t need anybody, and they want to fix the situation to their preference versus respecting the fact that everybody has a different perspective.

    Another reminder of the dangers of group think is that the normie standard is low. They set the bar really low, which makes them low-hanging fruit because of how stupid and easily controllable they all are.

    The admission cost to join their group is that you are required to dim your light so that everybody can be the same. And also to eliminate the risk of triggering people’s envy and insecurities. This is exactly why they are fake.

    They are so fake, and so stupid, that they fail to realize that it is actually their perspectives that’s grossly skewed.

    They’re not for you. You’re not for them. So when you go your own way, and show that you don’t need them, they want to attack you for it.

    And because they are all so weak-willed, not only will they stand by as others abuse you, they will literally join in. The “good” one is only quiet, and a spineless follower.

    They are also probably thinking, “if I let them roast me, what makes you so special?” Once again, they set the bar really low for themselves, and because they swear their perspectives are correct, they set it low for you, too.

    Then the normies celebrate their mediocrity and try to cover up their inherent shame by seeking attention on social media, and going out to nightclubs.

    Be ye not deceived. It is all a facade to make themselves seem way cooler than they actually are, and to make you want them because they thrive on your attention.

    If you fall for it, then this is how they will trap you. Mind you, these are only normie cults, and not all normies. Smart, creative people DO NOT join cults that target innocent people for no reason.

    So what can a light bearer do in this world filled with normies? First of all, what is a light bearer? Join me again next week as I will be discussing it in that article.

    Thanks for reading!

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  • Selena, 30 years later — A tragedy that could have been prevented

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    B. Lorenzo Buckinchere

    Mar 30, 2025

    March 31, 1995, the day the music died. Thirty years later, her murderer is eligible for parole, and is not the least bit remorseful. But what a coincidence that her parole eligibility concurs with the thirtieth anniversary.

    It is the end of the month, and time once again for our monthly review here on this site.

    Our muse for the month of March is Selena, the Tejana singer whose promising life was tragically cut short in 1995 at the hands of Yolanda Saldivar, her deranged fan club leader turned agent whose obsession with Selena bordered on psychosis, and led her to commit the unthinkable.

    Tomorrow is the thirtieth anniversary of the death of Selena, and a fitting time to reflect on what happened, why it happened, and why it is a cautionary tale for those who may be a bit too easily trusting.

    Origins:

    Selena Quintanilla, known simply by her stage name, Selena, was a Mexican-American singer, the youngest of three children born to Abraham and Marcella Quintanilla on April 16, 1971 in Freeport, Texas.

    Her father, Abraham, who is himself a musician, discovered Selena’s musical talent when she was six years of age, and would often allow his children to perform at his restaurant. However, the family relocated to Corpus Christi, Texas in 1981 after falling on hard times.

    While there, Abraham promoted Selena Y Los Dinos, a newly formed band that started out by performing on street corners and at weddings before releasing their first album, which was the same name as their band in 1984.

    Selena soon became a household name in the “Tejano” genre, and went on to producing several other albums, including; Dulce amor in 1988, Selena in 1989, her debut solo album, and Dreaming of You in 1995, released posthumously.

    A match made in hell:

    Selena first crossed paths with Yolanda Saldivar after Saldivar attended one of her concerts during the early 1990s. It was not long after that Saldivar started a fan club for Selena with the permission of Selena’s father who was still her manager at the time, and appointed herself as the club’s president.

    Saldivar soon relocated from San Antonio to Corpus Christi with the intent of getting closer to Selena, and was soon seen everywhere with her, always by her side. Saldivar eventually became Selena’s agent as well as the manager for her clothing boutique, Selena’s Etc.

    By then, Saldivar had become too overly involved in all of Selena’s affairs for someone who Selena barely knew. But it was too late, Selena was already in too deep.

    What happened?

    On the morning of Friday, March 31, 1995, Selena agreed to meet Saldivar alone at a motel in Texas in order to question her about the possibility that Saldivar was embezzling money from her boutique and fan club.

    At some point during the altercation, Selena was shot in the shoulder and rushed to a nearby hospital where she was pronounced dead later that afternoon after several failed attempts to revive her. She was just two weeks shy of her 24th birthday.

    Saldivar was finally apprehended by police and the FBI after a nine hour standoff that was eerily similar to the OJ Simpson standoff the year prior. She was subsequently tried in a court of law, found guilty by a jury of her peers, and sentenced to life in prison with the possibility of parole after thirty years.

    The mind of a murderer:

    Saldivar had intentionally set out from day one to make Selena her muse whether or not she was willing, and she was granted unearned access into Selena’s life much too easily. Saldivar developed an obsession with the power of Selena’s charisma, and the fact that she was able to attract a large audience from all walks of life.

    She envied Selena. She wanted that power all to herself. Otherwise she wanted to go down in history as the one who was solely responsible for erasing the grace and charisma that was Selena from the face of the earth, forever.

    Saldivar knew that doing so would make her famous, and she is correct because isn’t she now famous? It is important to note that there are some who want to eat off your name by any means necessary, and they don’t care how they do it. The end justifies the means.

    These are very dangerous people because they have made up their minds that they have nothing to lose from destroying the life of their muse. And if they cannot become famous, they will gladly settle for being infamous, even if they have to be infamous behind bars. It’s worth it to them.

    What made it possible?

    I believe that Selena was a bit naive and too overly trusting of the intentions of a stranger. First of all, she didn’t know this woman from a can of paint. What made her think that she could trust Saldivar enough to grant her unearned access into her life?

    Secondly, there are some who believe that her father was too controlling and mistrustful, and I can understand if perhaps Selena wanted to venture out on her own, and develop her own sense of identity.

    But at the tender age of 23 years, Selena couldn’t possibly be hip to all the ways of human nature. Her early success and support from her father had afforded her a rather sheltered life that the average 23 year old is not privy to in this world.

    Thirdly, trusting people is dangerous in general, but this is especially true if you are who some may call a “chosen one.” In other words, if you are gifted and you know exactly who you are, and you choose to answer the calling that was placed on your life since birth to achieve something exceptional on the world stage.

    All normies are fake, stupid and unoriginal, hence why they are normies to begin with. So if you are not a normie, you are therefore eccentric without any effort. You stick out like a sore thumb and human predators can spot you coming ten miles away.

    People will make you their muse and create agendas around your life for their own benefit. In short, if you are on stage you are already enough of a target as it is, and human nature is fickle and peculiar, so you must expect the agendas to come, and thus respond by enforcing thorough access control.

    Even if Selena did not want to rely too much on her father, she could have asked one of her former band members, or someone with whom she is already familiar to help her run her business and her fan club. But instead, she chose to involve someone whose intentions were not clear to her.

    Fourthly, Yolanda told Selena to meet her at a motel, and to come alone, and Selena agreed. She should have reminded Yolanda that she doesn’t give the orders around here, and then ordered Yolanda to meet her on her own terms, with eyewitnesses present. Whenever someone says, “meet me at some random, sleazy motel off the freeway, and come alone,” it’s usually trouble.

    Personal Takeaway:

    Predators like to heat check their targets before going in for the kill, just to see who they can target, and what they can get away with. When they see that you are famous, talented and boundaryless, that is every predator’s wet dream.

    They don’t always get the target they want, sometimes they have to settle for who they can get, otherwise they would go without. You can disarm them by learning all that you can about human nature, and by asserting an impenetrable fortress of steel around you at all times. Don’t be their wet dream, become their worst nightmare.

    Possibility of Parole:

    Saldivar would have become eligible for parole as of today’s date, March 30. However, the Texas parole board rejected Saldivar’s parole petition a few days ago on March 27.

    This is a most welcome move on their part as setting Selena’s murderer free so close to the anniversary of her death would have been an insult to her fans and loved ones, and above all else, her memory. Saldivar will again be eligible for parole in five years, and I hope that good sense prevails once again. She is to remain behind bars until her final breath.

    Thirty years later, where might she have been:

    Selena would have turned 54 years of age two weeks from now on April 16. I can envision a happy life where she would have been married with kids. By now, her kids would be grown with kids of their own, which would have made Selena a grandmother.

    And with numerous album releases throughout the years, her career would likely have catapulted into mainstream success, the likes of which would have only been matched by the success of Beyonce. She might have eventually landed a couple of roles on daytime soaps, plus numerous film and television cameos.

    Conclusion:

    In closing, let me say that I am not fear mongering in any way, I am simply saying to be careful when dealing with strangers, and remember to keep those boundaries up. I give this true crime cautionary tale on trust and boundaries a four out of five double pepperoni thin crust pizzas.

    Thank you all for reading, and I will see you on the next one.

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